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Shlomo & Rivka’s Corner
Rabbi Shlomo and his wife Rivka, were once that couple over 19 years ago, and due to the power and efficacy of Imago therapy, they realized how to get that love back and learn how to reconnect deeply so that they wouldn’t keep fighting over the smallest of things. Being so inspired from their own work with Imago Therapy, they went on to become trainers in Imago and marriage counseling professionals.
What to Do When your Wife or Husband Doesn’t Want Intimacy
If you’re a man whose wife doesn’t want marital intimacy or she flat out refuses intimacy, you are not alone. The good news is, that
Anxiety is ruining my marriage, Help!
Anxiety is ruining my marriage, help! With all of the stress that is going on in the world and in the news coupled with managing
What Surrendering in Your Marriage Means & Why it Builds Trusting Relationships
What does it mean to surrender in your relationship—and why bother anyway? It might help to start by talking about what surrendering isn’t. After all,
How the Big 5 Personality Traits Affect Your Relationships & Marriage Satisfaction
Each of our personalities are as unique as fingerprints but each person’s distinct behavior and feelings when faced with similar situations is deeply affected by
How to respond when your spouse is angry: Mirroring
We recommend using parts of the Imago dialogue to learn how to respond calmly and with intent when your spouse is angry, specifically mirroring. Why?
5 Marriage Communication Problems & How to Fix Them
Marriage communication problems are one of the biggest challenges couples face in a marriage. The inability to communicate effectively with one’s spouse can lead to
Feeling sick and tired of dealing with a needy spouse.
Are you considering divorce because you’re dealing with a needy spouse? You may relate to the reader’s question below that we answered on “Address your
Military Spouse Entitlement During Separation and Divorce
Military members and their spouses, just like people who have no military connection, may decide to legally separate. Sometimes, they have hope that their marriage can
Helping Your Partner Manage Life While They are Healing from Trauma
Emotional trauma can present some very challenging elements in a relationship, causing both partners to feel frustrated, unfulfilled, misunderstood, and even unloved at times. The
Why Does the Divorce Rate Decrease as Education Level Increases?
People who have a college education are less likely to get divorced than those who didn’t finish college. In fact, lower divorce rates have a
How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage Part II
How my Therapist Destroyed my Marriage Part 2 A previous article I wrote entitled, “How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage”– provoked a few strong responses
When your spouse is unreliable
Feeling like your spouse is unreliable is very disappointing. It’s hard enough raising a family, going to work, dealing with all of the responsibilities of
Spouse has ADHD? Link Between ADHD Spouse & Anger Issues in Marriage
Do you have an “ADHD spouse”? We counsel a lot of couples who are experiencing anger in their relationship. Interestingly enough, that anger could be
10 Signs of Emotional Abuse You Should Never Ignore
What is Emotional Abuse? When you love someone, it can be hard to notice the warning signs that normally alert you to toxic and unhealthy
3 Ways Grief Can Affect Your Relationship
Grief is an acutely painful reaction to loss. A person may grieve in reaction to the death of a loved one, the loss of a job, a
Angry Spouse? What to do if you’re living with an angry wife or an angry husband.
“My wife is always mad at me!” “Why is my husband angry with me?” One of the most common yet challenging issues I see when
How to Cope with Silent Treatment in Marriage
Is your spouse giving you the Silent treatment? Learn how to cope with silent treatment in marriage. The words below were spoken by an anonymous
When your wife won’t talk. What to do if she’s giving you the silent treatment.
Wife Won’t Talk? Here’s What You Should Know About Her Deafening Silence There are many things your wife would love for you to know about
Is Name Calling Verbal Abuse? What is considered verbal abuse?
Calling your spouse names and insulting them verbally can qualify as verbal abuse. Verbal abuse often starts out subtle. A put-down here or there or
I Love Him but I’m not Happy Anymore. What can I do for a happy marriage? Should I consider leaving?
You love your husband but you’re not happy anymore. Nothing feels worse than when you feel unhappy. And you still love him which makes it
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about ourselves and our partner that we never knew, such as the reason
why we react the way we do or the reason why certain things trigger us.
Overall, this intensive has taught us effective tools to use in the future.
We look forward to our future sessions!