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The Marriage Restoration Blog: Insights from Shlomo & Rivka
Rabbi Shlomo and his wife, Rivka, were once that struggling couple—nearly two decades ago. After facing their own challenges in 23 years of marriage, raising five kids, and working with thousands of couples, they developed a powerful approach to healing relationships. Their personal journey from conflict to deep connection inspired them to dedicate their lives to helping others do the same.
Transform Anger Issues in Marriage Into Compassion and Connection.
Turning Frustration Into Compassion in Your Marriage Last night, my toddler reminded me of something powerful about relationships. He’s teething again — waking up every
“How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage”- Has this happened to you?
“How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage” is the story of too many people’s experiences yet most people are unaware of how common it is. Have
Marriage Counseling or Individual Counseling for an Unhappy Marriage?
When your marriage feels unhappy or uncertain, it’s natural to wonder what kind of help will actually make a difference. Many people ask: “Should I
What to Do When You’re Experiencing In-Law Problems in Marriage
Why In-Law Problems Are So Common (and So Painful) Between holidays, family events, and vacations, couples often find themselves spending more time than usual with
Will a Temporary Separation Help My Marriage? (Not Necessarily)
Why “Trial Separation” Sounds Like a Solution — But Often Isn’t When couples are hurting, one partner may suggest a temporary separation as a break
How My Shopping Addiction Affected My Marriage (and What I Learned About Healing)
When Shopping Becomes an “Exit” From Your Relationship We all have ways we “exit” when we feel unsafe in our relationship. For some, it’s scrolling
Marriage Isn’t for You: Should You Stay Married?
When You Start Wondering If Your Marriage Is Worth Saving If you’re reading this, you might be asking one of life’s hardest questions: Should I
Marriage Encounter-Style Marriage Enrichment Retreat (for All Couples)
Looking for a Marriage Encounter-Style Retreat—Without the Religious Focus? If you’ve been researching Marriage Encounter retreats or Hold Me Tight® workshops, you may have noticed
Can Marriage Counseling Help an Incompatible Relationship?
Feeling Incompatible With Your Spouse? If you’ve ever thought, “We’re just too different,” you’re not alone. Many couples start to question whether they’re truly compatible
Symptoms of Codependency in Marriage (and How to Break the Cycle)
Are You in a Codependent Relationship? If you’re wondering, “Am I codependent in my marriage?” — you’re not alone.Many loving, caring partners slip into codependent
What Types of Couples Go to Marriage Counseling Retreats?
Are Marriage Retreats Only for Couples in Crisis? One of the most common questions we hear is: “What kinds of couples actually go to your
Understanding the 4 Attachment Styles in Marriage (And How They Shape Your Relationship)
Why Understanding Attachment Styles Matters in Marriage Every couple brings their own emotional history into their relationship. Our earliest bonds with caregivers—how we were comforted,
How a Marriage Gratitude Journal Can Strengthen Your Relationship
Why Gratitude Can Transform Your Marriage No one plans to take their spouse for granted—but life’s demands can make it easy to forget what we
What Neurotypical Couples Can Learn from Neurodiverse Relationships
Why Neurodiverse Couples Have So Much to Teach the Rest of Us Couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent—such as autistic, ADHD, or otherwise
In-Law Conflict: How to Protect Your Marriage and Set Healthy Boundaries
When Disagreements With In-Laws Start Hurting Your Marriage It’s completely normal for couples to experience moments of tension with their in-laws. But when disagreements turn
What Counts as Cheating? Defining Infidelity, Its Types, and How to Begin Healing
What Is Infidelity—and Why It’s So Confusing for Couples Few things shake a marriage like discovering that trust has been broken. But defining what counts
Christmas Holiday Activities for Couples: Romantic, Fun, and Cozy Ideas to Strengthen Your Bond
The holidays are supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year—but they can also get stressful and busy. Between shopping, family gatherings, and
Why Did Marriage Therapy Fail Us? The Real Reason Counseling Didn’t Work (and What Does)
In 2017, I published a post titled “How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage.” It caused a stir — and for good reason. I received plenty
What’s Really Going on Behind the Scenes of Couples Therapy (From a Therapist’s Wife)
The good, the bad, and the “please-don’t-do-this-to-your-marriage.” Hi, I’m Rivka Slatkin—wife of a marriage counselor, adult child of divorce, and co-facilitator of our Getting the
Handling Financial Disputes: Practical Tips for Money Harmony in Marriage
Money is one of the most common sources of stress in marriage — even for couples who deeply love and respect each other. Whether you’re
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