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Shlomo & Rivka’s Corner

Rabbi Shlomo and his wife, Rivka, were once that struggling couple—nearly two decades ago. After facing their own challenges in 23 years of marriage, raising five kids, and working with thousands of couples, they developed a powerful approach to healing relationships. Their personal journey from conflict to deep connection inspired them to dedicate their lives to helping others do the same.
Dealing with an Insecure Husband: How to Reassure Without Losing Yourself
In any relationship or marriage, no matter how strong or how long you’ve been together, there are bumps in the road that can arise. This
Breaking the Cycle of Resentment: How to Let Go and Move Forward
No matter how long you’ve been together, every relationship can have highs and lows. From the excitement of first getting married to the challenges of
Should You Check Your Husband’s Internet History? Navigating Digital Trust in Marriage
In this modern age of technology, it seems like we’re all attached to our devices, whether for work or for entertainment purposes. From spending time
My Wife Hates My Family—What Should I Do?
In any loving relationship, conflict can arise from the least expected of places, including your family. A favorite trope of sitcoms and dramas alike, disdain
My Partner Is Not Affectionate or Romantic? How to Rekindle the Spark
In any long-term relationship, there are times when partners can become complacent and romance can seem to fade away or disappear entirely. This can be
Is this Your Marriage? Take the Maximizer or Minimizer Quiz and Get a Helpful Assessment of the State Your Relationship!
Did the Maximizer/Minimizer dynamic feel familiar to you? It’s based on Imago Therapy’s turtles and hailstorm dynamic which is a relief for so many couples

How Emotional Neglect Experienced in Childhood Affects Our Relationships as Adults
Did you or your spouse face emotional neglect as a child? Are you concerned that emotional trauma from your past could be contributing to the conflict you’re
Why Do I Feel Like My Husband Is Hiding Something? Signs of Secrecy & How to Talk About It
With any relationship, open communication and trust are key to success. When one partner is being secretive or hiding things from the other, this can

The ONE Question that You Need to Ask Yourself Before Breaking Up
What is the 1 question to ask yourself before breaking up is: What do you need to be happy and what can you do to
Rivka’s Quarantine Diary Day 9 | Answering More Questions and Couples Frustrations, Walking together
Answering More Questions and Couples Frustrations, Walking together | Day 9 of Covid Quarantine with Family Never would I have thought I would appreciate a

Rivka’s Quarantine Diary Day 4 | Tears, Perseverance & Joy Helping Couples
March 19, 2020 Fourth Day of Covid Quarantine with Family Last night there were tears. Tears when I saw pictures of coffins in Italy lined

Rivka’s Quarantine Diary Day 1 | Keeping Kids on a Schedule & Meditation
March 16, 2020 Our quarantine officially started yesterday, on Monday, March 16, 2020. We had actually quarantined ourselves voluntarily starting the previous Thursday because it

Rivka’s Quarantine Diary Day 2 | Quarantined with Kids
March 17, 2020 Second Day of Covid Quarantine with My Kids Because of me feeling pressured all day yesterday to adhere to a schedule, which

Is a friend meddling in your marriage?
A Friend Meddling in a Marriage can be very Harmful. More inspiration for protecting your marriage from a meddling friend: Frenemies and Friends, who helps

5 Ways That Couples Retreats Work
Over the years, there have been movies and posts jokingly made about “nightmare” couples retreats and stories about “marriage retreat hell”. We’re hoping these are

Are you looking for the Best Couples Retreat?
No doubt, when you do a search for the best couples retreat, you are looking for a marriage counseling retreat that will actually work! Yes,

How do you see your partner? Learned from Imago marriage retreats.
Imago therapy believes that you picked your spouse unconsciously for a reason. All kinds of studies went into researching this axiom and is laid out

Did you marry your “Imago”? Principles of Imago therapy.
Imago therapy is fascinating in that it scientifically can explain why we are fighting so much with our partner! Keep reading to understand why your

Are you under Valentine’s Day Pressure?
We asked the following question on our Facebook page last Valentine’s day: Are you under Valentine’s day pressure? More inspiration for when you feel pressured:
Are siblings meddling in your marriage? Do you dislike your brother or sister in law?
Are siblings meddling in your marriage? Do you dislike your brother or sister in law? Find out what to do about these common family issues
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