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Shlomo & Rivka’s Corner
Rabbi Shlomo and his wife, Rivka, were once that struggling couple—nearly two decades ago. After facing their own challenges in 23 years of marriage, raising five kids, and working with thousands of couples, they developed a powerful approach to healing relationships. Their personal journey from conflict to deep connection inspired them to dedicate their lives to helping others do the same.
What Surrendering in Marriage Really Means (and Why It Builds Trust)
When people hear the word surrender in marriage, it can feel loaded. Many immediately think: Becoming a doormat Losing independence Being taken advantage of But
Effective Communication During Relationship Crisis: A 5-Step Framework to Reconnect When It Matters Most
Effective Communication During Relationship Crisis: A 5-Step Plan to Reconnect By Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, LCPC, Founder of The Marriage Restoration Project When couples reach out
How to Suggest a Couples Retreat to Your Spouse
If you’re feeling disconnected in your relationship, you may have considered attending a marriage retreat or intensive couples therapy—but how do you bring it up
How to Discuss Vaccines When You and Your Spouse Disagree
A healthy marriage is a safe haven. It’s a place where partners can discuss important and often difficult topics with honesty and confidence. But when
Can a Marriage Survive Sexual Trauma? Healing Intimacy and Rebuilding Trust
Any past traumatic experience keeps a person in survival mode—a tensing of the body and mind, as the brain’s main job is to keep you
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Marriage Intensives: How They Help Couples Rebuild Trust
Relationships thrive on emotional connections. But when trust is broken or conflicts escalate, couples often find themselves emotionally withdrawn, stuck in repetitive arguments, or simply
Should You Check Your Husband’s Browsing History?
In today’s digital world, we are more connected than ever—through phones, laptops, gaming systems, and social media platforms. While technology makes communication instant and convenient,
Before You Decide on Divorce: The One Step Most Couples Miss
The main reason why Rivka and I started The Marriage Restoration Project was so that children would not have to go through what she experienced
dWondering “How to Motivate My Spouse to Work on Our Relationship With Me?”
How to Motivate My Spouse to Work on Our Relationship With Me When you’re longing to reconnect and rebuild your marriage, few things are more
Why Weekly Marriage Counseling Doesn’t Always Work (and What to Do Instead)
When your marriage is struggling, the last thing you want is to spend months—or even years—sitting in weekly counseling sessions that leave you feeling stuck.
How to Talk Your Partner Into Going on a Marriage Retreat (Without Starting a Fight)
Bringing up the idea of attending a marriage retreat can feel intimidating. Maybe you’ve been thinking about it for a while, hoping it could help
Is Marriage Counseling Worth It After Infidelity? The ROI for Your Family—and Your Future
Infidelity doesn’t just injure two partners; it shakes the entire family system. The question, “Is counseling worth it?” isn’t only about saving a marriage—it’s about
Breaking the Cycle of Resentment: How to Let Go and Move Forward
In even the healthiest of relationships, resentment can quietly infiltrate, eroding trust and intimacy over time. Often stemming from unresolved conflicts, unmet needs, and perceived
How to Repair a Marriage After Infidelity: Can You Rebuild Trust?
Cheating stinks. Whether it’s a physical affair or an emotional one, betrayal shakes the very foundation of trust in a marriage. If you’re here, you
FAQs about our Marriage Counseling Practice
We’d like to give you an opportunity to read up on some of the frequently asked questions that we receive about our marriage counseling practice.
Can a married couple recover from infidelity?
Yes, if they want to. The key to a marriage surviving after infidelity is rebuilding trust. Ultimately, it all comes down to how much the
Should You Heal Yourself First Before Marriage—Or Grow Together After?
Growing Apart Once Married? Should You Heal First or Learn to Grow Together? When couples first marry, they often imagine a lifetime of connection and
Should Your Spouse Come Before Your Kids? Why Prioritizing Marriage is the Key to a Happy Family
When school starts, schedules fill up, and kids’ needs seem endless, it’s easy for your marriage to slide into the background. Many parents tell me
Researching Marriage Retreats Near You? Here’s What You Need to Know
If you’ve been searching “marriage retreats near me” or “best couples retreat for saving marriage”, you’re not alone. Many couples on forums like Reddit and
“Will my parents’ mistakes affect me when I am older?”
If you grew up watching your parents argue, split up, or avoid conflict, it’s natural to wonder:“Will my parents’ mistakes affect me when I’m older?”
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