What to do when you feel like you’re falling out of love?
What to do when you feel like you’re falling out of love? Have you ever heard people say love is a verb? Love isn’t something that you just “feel” for a person, it’s something that grows with time. More hope and inspiration for if you feel like you’re falling out of love: Staying present in […]
Roommates or Soulmates? What to Do When You’re Falling Out of Love
If you’ve found yourself thinking things like: “I don’t love my husband anymore.” “I want to love my wife again.” “I feel nothing for my spouse.” “We feel like roommates, not partners.” You’re not alone—and you’re not doomed. Feeling like you’re “falling out of love” is one of the most common fears couples search for […]
When is Divorce the best Option? Last ditch marriage counseling.
Question from a Reader: “My husband wants a divorce and I don’t. Please tell me how to stop a divorce and find last ditch marriage counseling” More inspiration for how to stop a divorce and find last ditch marriage counseling that works: The quickest way to awaken love Falling out of love? Avoid divorce with […]
What is The Best Way to Stop a Divorce?
What is the best way to stop a divorce? Are you the one that is initiating the divorce? Or are you the one whose spouse is serving divorce papers to? If your marriage is currently a miserable one, not giving you the basic things that you feel a marriage should be giving you, it’s perfectly […]
My spouse is cheating. Marriage Counseling advice for some clarity.
It’s hard to pull someone out of an active affair. There are some things that you can do to work on yourself while your spouse is cheating, though that’s probably the last thing you want to hear. More support for you while one spouse is cheating: Overcoming negativity, a crucial step. What you can learn […]
Should You Keep Fighting for Your Marriage? How the 3 Relationship Stages Can Guide Your Decision
Are you and your spouse struggling to see eye-to-eye? Understanding the three stages of marriage can help you identify where you are, anticipate the challenges ahead, and give you a roadmap to reach the deepest stage—real love. Many couples panic when conflict sets in, believing they’ve made a mistake in choosing their partner. But the […]
Detox negativity from your marriage
One of the most important lessons in the 5 Step Plan to a Happy Marriage is understanding the danger of negativity in a relationship. Negativity is one of the fastest ways to destroy intimacy, trust, and connection. It’s like slow poison — easy to overlook at first but devastating over time. Let’s explore how to […]
Marriage Problems and Tunnel Vision
Marriage Problems and Tunnel Vision: Why You’re Missing the Real Issues When marriage problems pile up, it’s easy to slip into tunnel vision. One spouse calls and says, “My husband is the problem.” Another insists, “If only my wife would change, everything would be fine.” Parents do the same when they call about a child […]
“I don’t love my husband anymore.” Falling out of love?
I don’t love my husband anymore. We hear this a lot. It’s scary to feel like you’re falling out of love. Here’s how to love your husband again. Are you spending any quality time together? Are you doing any positive activities for your relationship? Why don’t you love him anymore? Are you not attracted to […]
FAQs about our Marriage Counseling Practice
We’d like to give you an opportunity to read up on some of the frequently asked questions that we receive about our marriage counseling practice. If you have a question that has not been addressed below, please don’t hesitate to contact us. Please also read the following blog post: How to make sure marriage counseling […]
Facebook and Divorce Stories
Unfortunately, it is all too easy to “exit” from your spouse and from your marriage by logging onto social media sites like Facebook. There are many Facebook and divorce stories specifically with regards to how Facebook destroyed their marriage- or rather, destroyed their spouse’s willingness to participate in the marriage. More relationship help on the […]
Facebook and Divorce Part I, Divorce Statistics due to Facebook
Facebook and divorce has a bigger impact on marriages than previously thought. A new survey conducted by U.K. divorce website found that 33 percent of divorce petitions in 2011 contained references to Facebook. Another survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers found that “Facebook holds the distinction of being the unrivaled leader for online […]
Does Facebook Really Cause Divorce?Facebook and Divorce Statistics Part II
After Facebook and Divorce Part I sparked many reactions, a number of readers asked the same question: “Does Facebook actually cause divorce?” It’s a fair question — and one worth exploring more deeply. While social media itself isn’t inherently destructive, it can create conditions that strain vulnerable marriages. Below you’ll find a deeper look at […]
Does Online Couples Counseling Work? Is it Real?
Some things just don’t seem like they would work out, like going to couples counseling online. However, some types of online couples therapy really works. If you’ve used Skype or any technology that has helped you keep in touch with someone that is not living with you in your home, you CAN experience very […]
“I love you but I am not in love with you: What It Means & How to Respond
Key Takeaways Why Your Spouse Says “I Love You But I’m Not in Love With You” Hearing these words is devastating. Many husbands describe it as feeling like the ground beneath them has collapsed. But here’s the truth: It usually doesn’t mean she stopped loving you.It often means she: According to How to Improve Your […]
Premarital Counseling Questions, Worksheets & Workbooks
Premarital counseling and education is becoming more and more prevalent, and is even a requirement in some faith communities by those officiating at the wedding. While some couples enter premarital counseling because they are already experiencing relationship issues or are expecting challenges based on their own relationship history, there are many who enter premarital counseling […]
Helping your spouse with PTSD & trauma
Is your spouse or someone you love suffering from trauma? Here’s how to help a loved one and spouse with ptsd.
Is Facebook Reigniting Old Flames? Why Social Media Can Damage Your Marriage
When Facebook Feeds More Than Your Newsfeed It’s a familiar story: one innocent message turns into daily chats, old memories resurface, and before long, emotional lines are crossed. Social media was meant to connect us — but for many couples, Facebook is reigniting old flames and creating new fractures in their marriage. Here’s a real […]
You Can Be Right or You Can Be in Relationship: Politics is ruining my marriage!
Politics Is Ruining My Marriage: Can We Survive Different Beliefs? Have you ever thought: “Politics is ruining my marriage!” “My spouse and I can’t stop fighting about the election.” “Can a marriage survive political differences?” You’re not alone. Couples across the country are divided not just by politics, but by the way they handle disagreements. […]
Should Your Spouse Come Before Your Kids? Why Prioritizing Marriage is the Key to a Happy Family
When school starts, schedules fill up, and kids’ needs seem endless, it’s easy for your marriage to slide into the background. Many parents tell me they’ve become “co-managers of the household” and years later realize they’ve lost the spark that once kept them connected. But here’s the hard truth: if you consistently put your kids […]