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Shlomo & Rivka’s Corner

Rabbi Shlomo and his wife, Rivka, were once that struggling couple—nearly two decades ago. After facing their own challenges in 23 years of marriage, raising five kids, and working with thousands of couples, they developed a powerful approach to healing relationships. Their personal journey from conflict to deep connection inspired them to dedicate their lives to helping others do the same.
Are there any couples that are beyond help? Is it ever just too late?
Lots of couples talk with us about their situation and then ask if they’re the worst couple we’ve ever seen. The answer is usually no,
Is a Values-Based Secular Marriage Retreat the Right Fit for Your Relationship?
When couples face challenges in their marriage, many consider a faith-based retreat for its community and spiritual grounding. For others, a secular marriage retreat—one focused
Protecting Your Children’s Stability While Deciding the Future of Your Marriage
When your marriage is in a season of uncertainty, one of the hardest questions to face is: How will this affect the kids? You may
Can Your Marriage Survive after a Loss? How to Support a Grieving Spouse While Protecting Your Bond
When tragedy strikes – Gd forbid—whether it’s the sudden death of a loved one, the loss of a long-held career, or another life-altering event—it doesn’t
A New Study Suggests Emotional Flexibility Is Central to a Healthy Marriage (Here’s How to Cultivate It)
When you’re standing at a crossroads in your marriage—unsure whether to keep fighting for it or let go—it’s easy to focus on the big questions:
Deciding on Your Marriage’s Future? Watch for These 5 Micro-Moments
When people talk about what makes a great marriage, they often think of the big stuff: vacations, anniversaries, grand romantic gestures, and so on. But
A Deep Dive into Intensive Marriage Counseling
For so many of us, it can be truly painful to look at our closest relationship, our marriage, and admit that not everything is perfect.
The Silent Killers of Marriage That Retreats Help Uncover
Some marriages don’t end with a bang – they fade away quietly. There are no explosive fights or dramatic betrayals and on the surface, everything
How to Deal With a Needy Spouse — And Decide If the Marriage Can Be Saved
Are you considering divorce because your spouse’s emotional needs feel overwhelming? You may relate to the following question from a reader we addressed —a spouse
Imago vs. EFT vs. Gottman: What Works Best in a Weekend Retreat?
If you’re considering a couples therapy weekend, you’ll quickly encounter three names over and over: Imago Relationship Therapy (IRT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and The
How to Save a Marriage When Only One Is Trying — And How to Decide If You Should
If you feel like you’re the only one fighting for your marriage, you might wonder: Is there even a point in trying? The short answer
Why Entrepreneurs Can’t Afford to Ignore Their Marriage: Marie Forleo’s Story and the Power of Imago Therapy
Entrepreneurs often have more at stake than the average couple when their marriage falters—financially, emotionally, and even in terms of their business’s survival1. That’s what
How to Improve Your Marriage When Your Spouse Refuses to Talk
When a spouse won’t talk, some people try to open up the conversation right away, while others focus first on adjusting their own responses and
Does Intensive Marriage Counseling Work? What Research and Real Couples Say
If your marriage is facing serious challenges, you may be wondering, “Does intensive marriage counseling work?” The short answer is: Yes, it absolutely can —
Is an Intensive Retreat Worth It for Empty Nesters? Here’s What the Research Says
Becoming empty nesters can feel like a seismic shift—suddenly, the constant hum of parenting is gone, and you’re rediscovering life with your spouse in a
Are Multi-Day Intensive Couples Counseling Sessions More Effective Than Weekly One-Hour Sessions?
When a marriage is in crisis—or simply stuck—couples often wonder:Should we try a multi-day intensive couples counseling vs weekly sessions? While both approaches can help,
What Couples Therapy Weekend Should I Do?
When couples search for a weekend retreat, they’re often at a crossroads — wondering if this might be the turning point that saves their relationship.
Before You Start Marriage Counseling: 6 Key Insights That Could Make or Break Your Results
Marriage counseling can be a powerful intervention for couples in crisis — but not all counseling is equally effective. If you’re going to invest your
Wife Yells at Me: Why & How to Make it Stop
Does your wife yell or scream at you often? If the behavior is relatively new, there may be an unresolved issue or point of contention
What Should We Focus on Most in Our Relationship? Why Friendship in Marriage Deserves a Bigger Role
Many couples ask: “What should we be focusing on most if we want our marriage to thrive?” Some assume it’s all about conflict resolution—and while
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