Coping With Political Stress and Anxiety: How to Protect Your Relationship in Divisive Times
by Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, MS, LCPC—Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and Imago Relationship Therapist. If you’ve been feeling tense, fearful, or frustrated about the state of the world, you’re not alone. Many Americans are struggling with political stress and anxiety, and these feelings can easily spill into relationships. Couples who once connected easily may now find […]
My Husband Is Out of Work and Depressed: How to Break the Fear/Shame Cycle and Reconnect
When your husband is out of work and depressed, it’s easy to feel anxious, resentful, or scared about the future. You might want to motivate him — push him to send out résumés or apply for jobs — but that can unintentionally make things worse. In this article, we’ll explore the Fear/Shame Dynamic that often […]
Separating After the Holidays
Holidays are a tense time. I have spent many counseling sessions over the years working with couples on issues relating to preparing for an upcoming holiday or recovering from the aftermath of a disastrous holiday. Here’s what you need to know if you’re thinking about separating after the holidays. More inspiration about dealing with holiday […]
Hope for your marriage: Why It’s Not Too Late to Rebuild
If you find yourself thinking, “there is no hope for my marriage,” it’s important to know that the belief “some marriages are just doomed to fail” is a myth¹. Research and decades of clinical practice suggest that most couples can repair and even strengthen their relationship when the right tools are applied². At The Marriage […]
How to communicate with your spouse around politics.
How to communicate with your spouse around politics? It’s important to note that divisiveness and politics often go hand-in-hand. Especially in a two-party political system as we have in the United States, it is quite easy to remain partisan, to feel so strongly about your views that there is absolutely no way to even appreciate […]
The Getting the Love you Want Marriage Retreat is “Magical”
Why a Marriage Retreat Can Feel Like a Reset Button Just as we all need a much-deserved vacation—a time to get away from our surroundings and rejuvenate—our marriages also need time to recharge and reset. While a simple getaway with your spouse may do the trick, sometimes you need something more. If your relationship has […]
How to get that honeymoon feeling back! 8 tips to rekindle the flame.
Want to get that honeymoon feeling back? Here are eight tips to rekindle the flame that really work: 1. Look into each other eyes Life can be hectic and we don’t often make the time to have that meaningful connection that we once had when we could truly bask in each other’s presence. Taking the […]
Is your love language- gifts?
While most people appreciate gifts, for some it is a CRUCIAL way in which they feel loved. If you hear your spouse complaining that you never buy them gifts, likely this is an indicator that one of his/her love languages is gifts. That is an important clue for you to start giving gifts in a […]
How Much does Marriage Counseling Cost?
When I decided over a decade ago to dedicate my life to helping couples, I never planned to become a businessman. I just wanted to help people save their marriages. But over the years, one truth has become impossible to ignore — getting a couple in the door is often harder than the therapy itself. […]
Does Marriage Counseling Make Things Worse?
You hear a lot about marriage counseling making things worse. Well, is that true? Does marriage counseling make things worse? More inspiration about marriage counseling that works: How should good marriage counseling work? Can I find good marriage counseling online How to make sure marriage counseling will work for you?
Does Marriage Counseling Work? What to Do If Your Spouse Is Afraid of Couples Therapy
If you’ve ever thought, “Does marriage counseling even work?” or “My spouse will never go to therapy”, you’re not alone. Couples often come to this crossroads feeling hopeless. Maybe you’ve tried counseling before and it didn’t help. Maybe you’re afraid it will stir up more conflict. Or perhaps your husband or wife simply refuses to […]
New Year Resolution for Married Couples: How to Improve your Marriage
How to improve your marriage. What “should” your new year resolution be for the upcoming year? If you do this 1 thing, so much more will follow.
Should We Try Intensive Marriage Therapy? How to Know If It’s Time to Act
How do you know when it’s time to seek intensive marriage therapy—or even better, attend an intensive marriage counseling retreat? For many couples, the warning signs are there long before things reach a breaking point. If you answer “yes” to any of the questions below, you may be an excellent candidate for an intensive couples […]
Staying present in a relationship
If you’re looking for information on staying present in a relationship then likely you know that it is all too easy to allow the pressures of daily life to distract you from the one who “should” mean the most to you. More inspiration about staying present with your partner: The easiest way to fall back […]
Is my spouse unhappy?
You’re wondering, “is my spouse unhappy?” Chances are that you already know the answer to this question and are looking for what you can do to help foster the old feelings of happiness that you used to have with each other. More inspiration when you’re wondering, “Is my spouse unhappy?” How to get that honeymoon […]
Social media is ruining my marriage!
If you often think, “Social media is ruining my marriage!”, here are 3 rules you need to follow: More information on Social Media and Your Marriage: Helpful tips to prevent a divide Is Facebook reigniting old flames? Facebook and divorce statistics Facebook and divorce stories
How to Strengthen a Long-Distance Marriage: Expert Tips That Really Work
If you’re wondering: “Can a long-distance marriage really last?” “How do we stay emotionally connected when we live apart?” “What can we do to keep the spark alive until we’re reunited?” You’re not alone. Thousands of couples are navigating long-distance marriages due to work, military service, family responsibilities, or immigration processes. The good news is […]
How to survive the holidays with your extended family
With the holidays approaching, no doubt you might be feeling a bit of anxiety when you think about all of the time that you and your family will be spending with extended family. Here are 3 tips on how to survive the holidays with your extended family: More issues around holiday stress and extended family: […]
Infidelity Couples Counseling
Can Cheating Save a Marriage? The Truth About Affairs and Healing- Infidelity Couples Counseling 101. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering if stepping out of your marriage would help fix things, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re already in the middle of an affair, or you’re thinking about it because things at home feel unbearable. It’s […]
How can you handle your marriage frustrations if you’re SO upset??
It’s tempting to want to lash out when you’re feeling angry and experiencing marriage frustrations. And as the picture says, it’s OK to be Angry but never OK to be cruel.