Why I became an Imago Therapist for Couples
When your home is full of tension due marriage problems, everyone suffers. And on top of that pain and frustration, it’s really hard to believe that marriage could be better, after all, society is full of negative marriage jokes and insinuations. We often hear through TV and other media outlets that a lousy marriage is […]
Communication in Marriage: Which Approach Works Best to Fix Relationship Problems?
The number one problem topping our poll of readers’ relationship struggles was a lack of communication in marriage. Over several months, we asked couples to share their biggest challenges, and the most common answer was clear: communication issues¹. The good news? If you’re struggling with communication, you’re far from alone. The bad news? Without healthy […]
Can this marriage be saved?
“Can this marriage be saved?” – is a question that people ask a lot. We often hear about predicaments that couples are in and often, the situation seems so dismal that there is no way out of it. That’s why we are here. We created the “Can this Marriage be Saved” Podcast so that you […]
Imago Therapy for Jewish Couples: Healing Relationships with Jewish Values
Presented by Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor & Certified Imago Therapist Jewish couples today face unique challenges balancing tradition, family expectations, and the pressures of modern life. Many couples long for deeper connection but struggle with communication, unresolved conflicts, and emotional disconnection. Imago Relationship Therapy (IRT) offers a structured, research-based approach that aligns […]
Imago Relationship Therapy Transformed Our Marriage
If you’ve never experienced Imago Relationship Therapy, and you’re searching for marriage counseling that actually works, here’s why I strongly suggest you try it — and why it changed my life personally. But a word of advice: make sure you seek out a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. Training and experience matter when you’re entrusting someone […]
Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about Imago Therapy
The following was an article that we were interviewed for, by David Margolin of Ami Magazine. We think it is a very comprehensive overview of Imago Therapy.
Is Imago Therapy Just Communication Skills? How It Actually Heals Relationships
If you’ve heard of Imago Relationship Therapy, you may think it’s just a structured way to talk—one person speaks, the other mirrors back, and that’s it. Many people (even some therapists) dismiss it as simply a “communication technique.” But the truth is, Imago therapy goes far deeper. At its core, Imago is not a communication […]
Listen to our Imago therapy interview about relationships
The Jewish Home and Family Show on Israel National Radio (Arutz Sheva) by Leora Mandel recently invited me on an Imago therapy interview. There are two segments to the program.
Will marriage counseling help or make things worse?
You may be wondering will marriage counseling help your relationship or will marriage counseling make things worse? More inspiration on how to find the best one suited to your needs. How to find good marriage counseling? How to make sure marriage counseling will work for you. Does marriage counseling make things worse?
Marriage Counseling making things worse
Is marriage counseling making things worse for you? Usually that is due to the wrong approach to marriage counseling- where a therapist takes sides, suggests the couple separate, and makes a judgment about one of the spouses, only creating lots of doubt in the mind of the other spouse. We want to invite you to […]
Use Imago therapy to gain emotional intelligence and handle rude, hostile people.
Sometimes we see something that someone does and we literally hate them for it! Why do we react so strongly? According to Imago therapy, there is a reason and if you can become conscious as to why that person’s actions bother you SO much, you will gain a lot more emotional intelligence and become a […]
Will a Temporary Separation Help my Marriage? Not necessarily.
You’ll read below that one of the most important ways to heal and come back together after a temporary separation is to infuse your relationship with positivity and love again. We’re going to provide you with inspiration for how to do just that.
Help! I’m Married to an Overly Critical Husband
It’s painful to feel like the person who should be your biggest encourager is also your harshest critic. Many wives ask: “Why is my husband so critical of me? Can I change him? Is there a way to feel loved again without constant negativity?” The truth: criticism in marriage is common — but left unchecked, […]
Whitney Houston’s Last Exit: Married to an Addict
Whitney Houston’s death is yet another tragic ending for the life of a talented performer. While the cause of death is still uncertain, her turn to drug use during her tumultuous marriage sent her on a downward spiral that destroyed her reputation and ultimately her life. What lessons can we learn from her untimely passing […]
How my shopping addiction affected my marriage
We partake in all kinds of “exits” when we feel unsafe. There are lots of reasons that we feel unsafe, and in a marriage, our spouse will often trigger us in ways that make us feel even more unsafe. A shopping addiction is one kind of “exit” that we partake in. Let’s gain a lot […]
3 Ways You Can Truly Help Save Your Friend’s Marriage
When someone you care about is going through a marriage crisis, it’s natural to want to help. But here’s the hard truth: sometimes, even with the best of intentions, friends and family can unintentionally make things worse. I’ve seen many struggling marriages unravel further because of outside involvement that—though well-meaning—ended up fueling blame and deepening […]
What should I do when my wife ignores me?
If your wife is ignoring you, it’s natural to feel confused, hurt, or even angry. That kind of disconnection can be incredibly painful—especially when you’re not sure what’s causing it. Whether she’s pulling away emotionally, avoiding physical affection, or simply seems disengaged, you’re probably wondering: Why is this happening, and what can I do about […]
Military Marriage Counseling: Marriage Problems during deployment.
Relationship Problems Facing Military Couples During Deployment and How to Overcome Them Military couples are tough. They knew the risks, and went for it. But military relationships are inevitably bound to experience problems at some point. Deployment is a common time period for marriage problems, but with a little help you can learn to manage […]
Marriage Isn’t for You: Should you stay married?
Should you stay married? Am I the only one who clicked on Seth Adam Smith’s This Recently Married Man Just Realized Marriage Isn’t for him and assumed it was about someone who decided to throw away their marriage after 18 months?
How to Deal With a Passive Aggressive Husband (or Wife)
Key Takeaways Passive aggressive behavior = indirect resistance instead of open communication. Common signs: procrastination, sarcasm, silent treatment, and “forgetting” commitments. Causes may include conflict avoidance, learned family patterns, or fear of confrontation. How you respond often determines whether the pattern continues or changes. Building trust, validating feelings, and responding directly (without escalation) can shift […]