Does Marriage Counseling Make Things Worse?
You hear a lot about marriage counseling making things worse. Well, is that true? Does marriage counseling make things worse? More inspiration about marriage counseling that works: How should good marriage counseling work? Can I find good marriage counseling online How to make sure marriage counseling will work for you?
How Much does Marriage Counseling Cost?
How much does marriage counseling cost? When I decided over a decade ago that I wanted to spend my life helping couples, I had no intention of becoming a businessman. While I had to be compensated for my times to support my family, I was not interested in devoting hours of my time to sell […]
Is your love language- gifts?
While most people appreciate gifts, for some it is a CRUCIAL way in which they feel loved. If you hear your spouse complaining that you never buy them gifts, likely this is an indicator that one of his/her love languages is gifts. That is an important clue for you to start giving gifts in a […]
Infidelity Couples Counseling
Can Cheating Save a Marriage? The Truth About Affairs and Healing- Infidelity Couples Counseling 101. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering if stepping out of your marriage would help fix things, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re already in the middle of an affair, or you’re thinking about it because things at home feel unbearable. It’s […]
How to survive the holidays with your extended family
With the holidays approaching, no doubt you might be feeling a bit of anxiety when you think about all of the time that you and your family will be spending with extended family. Here are 3 tips on how to survive the holidays with your extended family: More issues around holiday stress and extended family: […]
How to Strengthen a Long-Distance Marriage: Expert Tips That Really Work
If you’re wondering: “Can a long-distance marriage really last?” “How do we stay emotionally connected when we live apart?” “What can we do to keep the spark alive until we’re reunited?” You’re not alone. Thousands of couples are navigating long-distance marriages due to work, military service, family responsibilities, or immigration processes. The good news is […]
Social media is ruining my marriage!
If you often think, “Social media is ruining my marriage!”, here are 3 rules you need to follow: More information on Social Media and Your Marriage: Helpful tips to prevent a divide Is Facebook reigniting old flames? Facebook and divorce statistics Facebook and divorce stories
Is my spouse unhappy?
You’re wondering, “is my spouse unhappy?” Chances are that you already know the answer to this question and are looking for what you can do to help foster the old feelings of happiness that you used to have with each other. More inspiration when you’re wondering, “Is my spouse unhappy?” How to get that honeymoon […]
Staying present in a relationship
If you’re looking for information on staying present in a relationship then likely you know that it is all too easy to allow the pressures of daily life to distract you from the one who “should” mean the most to you. More inspiration about staying present with your partner: The easiest way to fall back […]
Should We Try Intensive Marriage Therapy? How to Know If It’s Time to Act
How do you know when it’s time to seek intensive marriage therapy—or even better, attend an intensive marriage counseling retreat? For many couples, the warning signs are there long before things reach a breaking point. If you answer “yes” to any of the questions below, you may be an excellent candidate for an intensive couples […]
New Year Resolution for Married Couples: How to Improve your Marriage
How to improve your marriage. What “should” your new year resolution be for the upcoming year? If you do this 1 thing, so much more will follow.
How to Stop Fight-or-Flight Reactions in Your Marriage
When you feel stressed, it’s hard to make conscious and informed decisions. Instead, your brain shifts into fight-or-flight mode—reacting automatically rather than thoughtfully. In relationships, these reactions often look like: Yelling Shutting down Silent treatment Walking out The problem? Your spouse has their own fight/flight response, which often gets triggered by yours. This creates a […]
[Podcast Episode 011] When your siblings don’t like your spouse.
Are siblings meddling in your marriage? Do you dislike your brother or sister in law? Is your sister or your spouse’s sister trying to break up your relationship? What to do when your siblings don’t like your spouse? If someone in your family is trying to break up your marriage, don’t let them. They need […]
Are you under Valentine’s Day Pressure?
We asked the following question on our Facebook page last Valentine’s day: Are you under Valentine’s day pressure? More inspiration for when you feel pressured: The ONE questions that you need to ask before breaking up
The ONE Question that You Need to Ask Yourself Before Breaking Up
What is the 1 question to ask yourself before breaking up is: What do you need to be happy and what can you do to bring that into your relationship? Ask yourself, “When did you start becoming unhappy in this relationship? What changed?” Is it a particular scenario or event that occurred or a situation […]
Marriage Quiz – Which Couple Are You?
Take this marriage quiz to find out what kind of couple you are!
How do you see your partner? Learned from Imago marriage retreats.
Imago therapy believes that you picked your spouse unconsciously for a reason. All kinds of studies went into researching this axiom and is laid out in Dr. Harville Hendrix’s noted book, Getting the Love You Want. One of the results of us falling in love with someone that we picked unconsciously is the way we […]
Did you marry your “Imago”? Principles of Imago therapy.
Imago therapy is fascinating in that it scientifically can explain why we are fighting so much with our partner! Keep reading to understand why your spouse is pushing your buttons and how your conflict is actually a MAJOR opportunity for you. “Did I marry the right person?” While you may expect this question to be […]
Before You Start Marriage Counseling: 6 Key Insights That Could Make or Break Your Results
Marriage counseling can be a powerful intervention for couples in crisis — but not all counseling is equally effective. If you’re going to invest your time, money, and emotional energy, you want the best possible chance at repairing your relationship. These six research-backed insights can help you choose the right approach and avoid common pitfalls. […]
How to find a good marriage counselor
Just about anyone who has a degree in counseling can advertise that they do couples work. The question is, can they help your relationship? Learn what to look for in your marriage therapist, and how to find a good relationship counselor. If you’re looking for information on how to find the right marriage counselor, here’s […]