[Relationship Help Podcast Episode 007] How we create our worst nightmare: My childhood is affecting my relationship!
When we get married, according to Imago therapy (the couples work that we practice exclusively), we are driven automatically to recreate our childhoods. What? How do we do this and why is this such an amazing opportunity for relationship help? Help for when “My childhood is affecting my relationship!” More inspiration on Imago therapy and […]
Being Married Is Good for Your Health! Science Explains Why
Can marriage really make you healthier? Research says yes. From reduced risk of alcoholism to quicker recovery from diseases like cancer and heart attacks, studies consistently show that marriage is linked to better health outcomes and longer life. Of course, not just any marriage—healthy, supportive relationships bring the greatest benefits. Toxic or high-conflict marriages can […]
What to do if you’re in an abusive relationship
There are varying degrees of an abusive relationship. No abuse is acceptable and is an impediment to building a safe and loving relationship. While it is possible for abuse to stop, it is incumbent on the victim of physical abuse to put oneself out of danger and get safe. Verbal and emotional abuse can be […]
Protecting Your Children’s Stability While Deciding the Future of Your Marriage
When your marriage is in a season of uncertainty, one of the hardest questions to face is: How will this affect the kids? You may be weighing whether to stay together, take a break, or separate—and in the middle of that emotional storm, your children still need stability, security, and love. The good news is […]
How to Communicate Better at Work with Relationship Intelligence
Most people spend more waking hours with their coworkers than with their own families. That means the way you communicate at work doesn’t just influence projects and deadlines—it shapes your company’s culture, productivity, and even profitability. Relationship Intelligence (RQ) is the ability to understand, manage, and repair relationships under stress. While IQ and EQ are […]
4 Ways to Improve Your Marriage When Your Spouse Is Not Interested
Do you wish your marriage could be better even when your spouse isn’t interested? Are there changes you’d like to see in your spouse but you don’t know how to even broach the subject? A couple should ideally work together on their relationship, but if you find yourself going at it alone, don’t despair. Here are […]
Interview with Laura Doyle, Author of “First Kill All The Marriage Counselors”
Have you heard of the book, First Kill All the Marriage Counselors? We have, and we interviewed the author for our podcast, “Can this Marriage be Saved”. It’s a great interview and we wanted to share it with you by way of audio recording and written transcript below. Laura Doyle’s wisdom for women is bold, […]
Change your thoughts about your Marriage.
One of our readers recently sent me this quote: “I’m glad that what’s going on in my head isn’t happening in my life.” This made me think about the stories we often make up in our head. Consider what would happen if you change your thoughts about your marriage especially if your worried about marriage […]
[Relationship Help Podcast Episode 007] Is your childhood affecting your marriage?
Is your childhood affecting your marriage? Marriage is truly the “unfinished business” of childhood. What does that mean and how does it affect you? We are all in marriages that are going to resemble our childhoods-in obvious ways and not so obvious ways. You can hear some of the not-so obvious ways that Rivka and […]
Is it possible to “declutter” a relationship using the KonMari Method for Marriage?
There’s a lot of talk about the Konmari method and how to declutter your life and home. Couples also want to know about how they can de-clutter their relationship and if such a thing exists. We think it’s possible to cut out extraneous relationship clutter and here’s how.
From Me to You as an Adult Child of Divorce: Rivka’s Popular Marriage Videos
Are you an adult child of divorce? There are so many of us out there, and whether you are an adult child of divorce or not, these marriage videos will help you.
A letter to Angelina Jolie: Before you end your marriage permanently…
Curious about what happened in the Angelina Jolie Brad Pitt divorce? Read our letter to Angelina Jolie: Before you end your marriage permanently…
Feeling Drained in Your Marriage? How to Reset When You’re Giving More Than You’re Getting
Do you feel utterly drained in your relationship—like you’re giving everything but not getting the same in return? Maybe summer left you exhausted from entertaining kids. Maybe you’ve compared your marriage to others and felt let down. Or perhaps you’re simply tired of carrying the load without appreciation. You’re not alone. Many spouses feel this […]
[Podcast Episode 008] Willing to do whatever it takes to fix your marriage?
Are you willing to do whatever it takes to fix your marriage? The most successful couples are those that are committed to doing whatever it takes to having a good marriage. This includes taking personal responsibility- by being emotionally mature and examining how our thoughts, deeds, and actions may sabotage our relationship.
Should I save my marriage?
Facing a Marriage Crisis: Should I Stay or Should I Go? If you’re asking yourself, “Should I save my marriage or end it?” you’re not alone. Many couples face this painful crossroads. Divorce is often seen as the default answer — but it isn’t always the best one. With the right support, many couples recover […]
6 Interesting holiday activities for families to bond
If you’re looking for holiday activities for families to bond, here are 6 interesting and smart tips: More inspiration on the holidays and activities for families to bond: How to survive the holidays with extended family Separating after the holidays Before you give gifts this holiday season…
How to get that honeymoon feeling back! 8 tips to rekindle the flame.
Want to get that honeymoon feeling back? Here are eight tips to rekindle the flame that really work: 1. Look into each other eyes Life can be hectic and we don’t often make the time to have that meaningful connection that we once had when we could truly bask in each other’s presence. Taking the […]
The Getting the Love you Want Marriage Retreat is “Magical”
Why a Marriage Retreat Can Feel Like a Reset Button Just as we all need a much-deserved vacation—a time to get away from our surroundings and rejuvenate—our marriages also need time to recharge and reset. While a simple getaway with your spouse may do the trick, sometimes you need something more. If your relationship has […]
How to communicate with your spouse around politics.
How to communicate with your spouse around politics? It’s important to note that divisiveness and politics often go hand-in-hand. Especially in a two-party political system as we have in the United States, it is quite easy to remain partisan, to feel so strongly about your views that there is absolutely no way to even appreciate […]
Does Marriage Counseling Work? Is Your Husband or Wife Afraid of Couples Therapy?
Believe it or not, it is not only couples that are afraid of marriage counseling there are many therapists out there who are terrified of working with couples and rightfully so. What if they fight in the office? How can I stop the escalation? Who does the talking and to whom? Couples, themselves, are just […]