Should I get a divorce?
Should I get a divorce? “Why Should I Save My Marriage? My husband is boring and I’d rather just leave and be happy.- Bored wife” More inspiration about if you should get a divorce or learn how to save your marriage: When is divorce an option? Last ditch marriage counseling What’s the best way to […]
When is it time to give up on your marriage and file for divorce?
If your marriage is currently a miserable one, not giving you the basic things that you feel a marriage should be giving you, it’s perfectly normal that you would wonder things like- when to file for divorce? Or if you should get a divorce and just give up on marriage? We’d like to provide you […]
Should I get a divorce after the kids move out?
It’s common to wake up one day, especially after such a big life change such as empty nest syndrome when the kids have all grown, and feel like you are no longer attracted to your spouse. You might even be wondering, “Should I get a divorce after the kids move out?” We encourage you to […]
Should I get a divorce or a temporary separation?
Wondering if you should get a divorce or separate temporarily? Every relationship endures hardship, but you should know the signs that a relationship isn’t working and what you can do to help your marriage recover after a crisis like cheating or addiction. Read the story from an anonymous client below. Does it sound familiar? If […]
Divorce Corp, A Hollywood Solution to Prevent and Stop Divorce
We recently came across a trailer for a new documentary called Divorce Corp. We don’t really know much about the people behind the documentary and when we recommend something, we usually carefully research who they are and what their approach is. That being said, it is a frightening portrayal of the family court system and […]
How to stop a divorce after filing papers.
How to stop a divorce after filing papers? Is it possible? Of course it is! It’s your marriage, and it’s not as complicated as it may seem. This post will include a little “legal-eze”, even though we practice marriage counseling not law, we want to provide you with some legal advice so that you can […]
We Use the Imago Dialogue in Our Marriage
When I work with couples, I help them tone down all of the stress and anxiety they may be experiencing and create an atmosphere of calm with an amazing tool called the Imago Dialogue. The Imago dialogue process is a communication tool that couples learn allows themselves to self-regulate, slow down, and feel safe enough […]
Pre Marriage Counseling
It can take newly-married couples a while to get used to living with a permanent roommate whom they love but didn’t realize was so different from them! If you are engaged or newly married, you may have been too starry-eyed at the beginning of your relationship to listen to any marriage advice, and we do […]
Marriage and Family therapy or Individual therapy for past relationship baggage?
Marriage and family therapy or Individual therapy? If you have a lot of baggage from childhood, it’s common to wonder if you should first seek out a therapist for yourself and then come back to your marriage a better person. In Imago therapy, we believe that we were all wounded in relationship and the best […]
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How to deal with financial problems in marriage
Financial problems in marriage are very serious and are one of the top reasons that couples divorce. Money need not be a catalyst for divorce provided that you handle money problems in marriage well. We’ll guide you through how to do just that. More inspiration on improving any financial problems in marriage: Build your marriage […]
Is your unwilling spouse not wanting to work on your marriage with you?
Married to an unwilling spouse who won’t work on your relationship with you? One of the questions I am frequently asked by readers, is what do I do if my spouse is not interested in working on the relationship. I would like to share an amazing email I received last week from one of our […]
Free Online Marriage Counseling on Household Management
When we were first married, we realized quickly that both of us had different ideas of what de-cluttering the house “should” look like. This free online marriage counseling on household management is a rudimentary step to make your marriage successful. More inspiration on household management as a couple: The 4 Clutter Personality Types Start with […]
Can books and Marriage Videos truly save your marriage?
We know that there are many people out there that are timid about going to marriage counseling. Perhaps they’re afraid of “dredging” up old baggage, or concerned that a marriage counselor will take “sides” with their spouse, or they think that the process of working on their relationship is going to take many, many counseling […]
What to do when you feel like you’re falling out of love?
What to do when you feel like you’re falling out of love? Have you ever heard people say love is a verb? Love isn’t something that you just “feel” for a person, it’s something that grows with time. More hope and inspiration for if you feel like you’re falling out of love: Staying present in […]
Roommates or Soulmates? What to do when you’re falling out of love.
What to do when you’re falling out of love. “I don’t feel love anymore!” “I don’t love my husband anymore” “I want to love my wife again”. Do these thoughts feel familiar? It’s scary to feel like you’re falling out of love! Remember when you first got married, ready to conquer the world? There was […]
When is Divorce the best Option? Last ditch marriage counseling.
Question from a Reader: “My husband wants a divorce and I don’t. Please tell me how to stop a divorce and find last ditch marriage counseling” More inspiration for how to stop a divorce and find last ditch marriage counseling that works: The quickest way to awaken love Falling out of love? Avoid divorce with […]
What is The Best Way to Stop a Divorce?
What is the best way to stop a divorce? Are you the one that is initiating the divorce? Or are you the one whose spouse is serving divorce papers to? If your marriage is currently a miserable one, not giving you the basic things that you feel a marriage should be giving you, it’s perfectly […]
My spouse is cheating. Marriage Counseling advice for some clarity.
It’s hard to pull someone out of an active affair. There are some things that you can do to work on yourself while your spouse is cheating, though that’s probably the last thing you want to hear. More support for you while one spouse is cheating: Overcoming negativity, a crucial step. What you can learn […]
How to save a marriage by understanding the 3 relationship stages.
Are you and your spouse struggling to see eye-to-eye and you want to save your relationship? Learning the three stages of marriage can help you realize which stage you are in, and identify hurdles you’ll need to overcome to get to the last stage (real love). You might be wishing you never fell in love […]