Did you marry your “Imago”? Principles of Imago therapy.
Imago therapy is fascinating in that it scientifically can explain why we are fighting so much with our partner! Keep reading to understand why your spouse is pushing your buttons and how your conflict is actually a MAJOR opportunity for you. “Did I marry the right person?” While you may expect this question to be […]
Are you looking for the Best Couples Retreat?
No doubt, when you do a search for the best couples retreat, you are looking for a marriage counseling retreat that will actually work! Yes, a beautiful island or locale would be wonderful to visit with your spouse, but if you are fighting all the way there and back, then really it’s not worth the […]
5 Ways Intensive Couples Counseling Retreats Work (and When to Choose One Over Weekly Therapy)
Key Takeaways Why intensives work: They compress months of work into a focused window, reduce “start/stop” drift, and build momentum on the hardest issues. When intensives beat weekly: Affair fallout, constant blowups, or feeling stuck after months of sessions—situations where you need containment + speed. (Weekly still works well for steady skill-building.) If one spouse […]
The Imago dialogue script
The Imago Dialogue Script is an active exchange between a Sender (the speaking partner) and a Receiver (the listening partner). Breaking the Imago Intentional Dialogue Down Into Parts. The Sender speaks his or her message as simply and concisely as possible; that is, the Sender shares thoughts and feelings succinctly, so the receiver can hear […]
When Siblings Meddle in Your Marriage: What to Do
Key Takeaways Family interference — especially siblings meddling in your marriage — can create conflict and emotional distance between spouses. Often, siblings don’t understand the deeper reasons behind your partner choice. Couples who set healthy boundaries with siblings and in-laws protect their marriage from outside influence. Energy belongs in your own relationship, not in trying […]
Effective Communication. Are you a good listener?
When I first met my wife I thought I was a good listener, and so did she. People would often come me to share their problems and I wasn’t even a psychotherapist at the time. After we got married, I realized I wasn’t as good of a listener as I had imagined. Here’s why using […]
You Just Got Caught on Ashley Madison. Now what? Getting over an affair.
Hackers broke into a database of 37 million users for the cheating site Ashley Madison, whose motto is, “Life is Short, Have an Affair”. Your spouse is going to need some help healing and help with getting over an affair.
Is a friend meddling in your marriage?
Is a Friend Meddling in Your Marriage? How to Protect Your Relationship It’s one thing to lean on friends for support. It’s another when a friend becomes so involved in your marriage that they start to influence how you or your spouse see each other. A meddling friend—even with “good intentions”—can quietly undermine your bond […]
Married to a Narcissist: What Can You Do Besides Leave and Still Lead a Happy Life?
So many of you are searching for answers on what to do if you are married to a narcissistic husband or narcissistic wife. We provide those real, raw answers for you that will work to fix your marriage problems related to being married to a narcissist. Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 19:09 […]
How Far Would You Go to Prevent Divorce?
In this powerful episode, we dive into what it really means to fight for your relationship—especially when you’re facing a marriage crisis. Whether you’re on the verge of separation, trying to prevent divorce, or searching for a way to reconnect after years of disconnection, this conversation will open your eyes to the possibilities of healing. […]
Are you Re-Creating your Childhood? We all do it! Here’s how.
The last thing you’d ever thought you’d be doing is re-living your childhood. We all recreate our childhood experiences in marriage, whether we want to or not! Find out how you may be re-experiencing your childhood through your partner. Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 12:54 — 17.7MB) | EmbedSubscribe: Spotify | Android […]
Marriage Counselor Fears For His Life! An Interview with Laura Doyle, New York Times Bestselling Author of First Kill All The Marriage Counselors.
In our interview with Laura Doyle, author of First Kill All of the Marriage Counselors, we learn more about how she coaches women (ONLY!) to take ownership for their role in the marriage and how they can take it into their own hands to turn a failing marriage around…without the participation of her husband! Podcast: […]
Who makes you feel better?
We all have those friends/family that we can call up when feeling low and they instantly make us feel better. And then there are those that don’t really do anything for us in those times. What do those great friends have in common? Rivka shares with us an experience she had this week… Podcast: Play […]
Adult Children of Divorce & Marriage Struggles: What You Need to Know
Podcast Episode: Can This Marriage Be Saved? If you’re an adult child of divorce—or you’re married to someone who is—you may have wondered: “Do we come to the table with fewer resources than couples from intact families?” This episode tackles that question head-on. While growing up with divorced parents can create unique challenges in marriage, […]
Is Divorce Contagious? When all your friends seem to be separating and divorcing, this is for you.
Have you been advised to separate or divorce? When all of your friends and circles around you seem to be separating and divorcing, here’s what you need to know. Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 23:40 — 21.7MB) | EmbedSubscribe: Spotify | Android | Email | Deezer | RSS | More
Spouse doesn’t want to save your marriage?
What if your spouse refuses to save your marriage? What if you want him/her to go to counseling with you and they won’t? Can you improve your marriage even if your spouse doesn’t want to? Yes, you absolutely can and this episode will detail some strategies for you to begin doing the work needed to […]
Communication Problems in Marriage: Why They Happen & How to Fix Them
Key Takeaways Communication issues are the #1 reported relationship problem among couples. Misunderstandings, invalidation, and defensive responses erode trust and closeness. Effective communication requires validation, active listening, and clarity, not just more words. Transforming your communication style can reduce conflict and rebuild emotional connection. Couples who learn healthy communication skills report higher satisfaction and lower […]
After the Affair: Couples Therapy for Cheating Spouses
Experiencing an affair can feel like the end of the world, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your marriage. In fact, couples therapy for cheating or a marriage crisis retreat might be exactly what you need to save your marriage. Rather than automatically thinking about divorce, couples can rebuild their relationship by working […]