What do happy couples do differently?
What do happy couples do differently? More inspiration about happy couples and what happy couples do differently: Want to be one of the lucky ones? What it takes to have a successful marriage How to be happy in an unhappy marriage Is my spouse unhappy?
How to save a marriage with a Relationship Detox
Every marriage goes through rough patches, but when constant criticism, blame, or emotional exhaustion take over, you may feel like your relationship has become toxic. Before you give up, consider this: you might not need a divorce—you might need a relationship detox. A relationship detox helps couples remove toxic communication patterns, reestablish emotional safety, and […]
Relationship Questions About Money to Answer Before You Get Married
Money is one of the top sources of conflict in marriage, right alongside communication and intimacy. Research consistently shows that financial disagreements are a leading predictor of divorce¹. That’s why it’s crucial to talk about money early in your relationship—ideally before you get married. If you’re already married, don’t worry. It’s never too late to […]
Is it possible to “declutter” a relationship using the KonMari Method for Marriage?
There’s a lot of talk about the Konmari method and how to declutter your life and home. Couples also want to know about how they can de-clutter their relationship and if such a thing exists. We think it’s possible to cut out extraneous relationship clutter and here’s how.
[Relationship Help Podcast Episode 007] Is Your Childhood Affecting Your Marriage?
Key Takeaways Marriage often brings up unfinished business from childhood — wounds, unmet needs, and family patterns. Many people unconsciously marry someone like their parents (or react strongly against them). If you didn’t pick a partner similar to your parents, you may still provoke or project old wounds onto your spouse. Recognizing how childhood trauma […]
Change Your Thoughts About Your Marriage: How to Stop Overthinking and Reconnect
A reader once sent me this quote: “I’m glad that what’s going on in my head isn’t happening in my life.” It struck me because so many of us — especially when we feel insecure in our marriage — create stories in our head that aren’t based on reality. We assume the worst, replay imagined […]
Interview with Laura Doyle, Author of “First Kill All The Marriage Counselors”
Have you heard of the book, First Kill All the Marriage Counselors? We have, and we interviewed the author for our podcast, “Can this Marriage be Saved”. It’s a great interview and we wanted to share it with you by way of audio recording and written transcript below. Laura Doyle’s wisdom for women is bold, […]
How to fix my marriage by myself: Improve your marriage when your spouse is not interested
Key Takeaways You can improve your marriage when your spouse is not interested by changing your approach—lowering defensiveness, raising safety, and modeling new patterns. Start with self-change (calm curiosity instead of criticism), then consistent appreciation, real listening, and daily acts of care. Use scripts and micro-habits to avoid overwhelm; small, repeated behaviors shift the emotional […]
How to Communicate Better at Work with Relationship Intelligence
Most people spend more waking hours with their coworkers than with their own families. That means the way you communicate at work doesn’t just influence projects and deadlines—it shapes your company’s culture, productivity, and even profitability. Relationship Intelligence (RQ) is the ability to understand, manage, and repair relationships under stress. While IQ and EQ are […]
Protecting Your Children’s Stability While Deciding the Future of Your Marriage
When your marriage is in a season of uncertainty, one of the hardest questions to face is: How will this affect the kids? You may be weighing whether to stay together, take a break, or separate—and in the middle of that emotional storm, your children still need stability, security, and love. The good news is […]
What to do if you’re in an abusive relationship
No form of abuse is ever acceptable. Whether it is physical, verbal, or emotional, abuse damages trust, erodes safety, and prevents a healthy relationship from growing. While some unhealthy patterns can be addressed in therapy, if you are in physical danger, your first priority is to get safe. Call 911 (in the U.S.), reach out […]
Being Married Is Good for Your Health! Science Explains Why
By Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, LCPC — Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, Advanced Imago Relationship Therapist, and co-founder of The Marriage Restoration Project. For more than 20 years, he’s helped couples transform hopeless marriages into lasting connection through structured dialogue and emotional safety. Can marriage really make you healthier? Research says yes. From reduced risk of alcoholism […]
[Relationship Help Podcast Episode 007] How we create our worst nightmare: My childhood is affecting my relationship!
When we get married, according to Imago therapy (the couples work that we practice exclusively), we are driven automatically to recreate our childhoods. What? How do we do this and why is this such an amazing opportunity for relationship help? Help for when “My childhood is affecting my relationship!” More inspiration on Imago therapy and […]
6 Holiday Activities for Families to Bond (That Actually Work)
Key takeaways Bonding grows from shared novelty, rituals, and daily gratitude—not just big events. Keep ideas short, specific, and repeatable so they survive holiday stress and busy calendars. Use simple scripts and micro-rituals to lower reactivity and raise connection (kid-friendly, teen-proof). Evidence shows families that practice rituals of connection, novel activities, and gratitude report higher […]
Should I save my marriage?
Facing a Marriage Crisis: Should I Stay or Should I Go? If you’re asking yourself, “Should I save my marriage or end it?” you’re not alone. Many couples face this painful crossroads. Divorce is often seen as the default answer — but it isn’t always the best one. With the right support, many couples recover […]
[Podcast Episode 008] Doing Whatever It Takes to Fix Your Marriage
Key Takeaways The couples who succeed are those who commit to doing whatever it takes, even when it’s uncomfortable. “Whatever it takes” means taking personal responsibility, not just blaming your spouse. Emotional maturity = being willing to look at your own thoughts, actions, and patterns that sabotage connection. You can begin change on your own […]
Feeling Drained in Your Marriage? How to Reset When You’re Giving More Than You’re Getting
Do you feel utterly drained in your relationship—like you’re giving everything but not getting the same in return? Maybe summer left you exhausted from entertaining kids. Maybe you’ve compared your marriage to others and felt let down. Or perhaps you’re simply tired of carrying the load without appreciation. You’re not alone. Many spouses feel this […]
Celebrity Marriage Counseling: Read This Before You End It
Key takeaways (for high-profile couples) Fame amplifies normal marital stressors—privacy, schedules, staff, and scrutiny. A confidential, no-blame intensive gives you clarity fast, off-camera. Don’t make a forever decision in a fight. Use a structured pause (discernment first, then repair) so you’re acting consciously, not reactively. If you share children, you’ll be in each other’s lives […]
From Me to You as an Adult Child of Divorce: Rivka’s Popular Marriage Videos
Are you an adult child of divorce? There are so many of us out there, and whether you are an adult child of divorce or not, these marriage videos will help you.
Married to a Narcissist: What can you do besides leave? (Podcast)
We’d like to share with you our latest podcast episode: Married to a Narcissist: What can you do besides leave and still lead a happy life? Listen along to the podcast and read the written transcript while following along.