How to communicate with your spouse around politics.

How to communicate with your spouse around politics? It’s important to note that divisiveness and politics often go hand-in-hand. Especially in a two-party political system as we have in the United States, it is quite easy to remain partisan, to feel so strongly about your views that there is absolutely no way to even appreciate […]
The Getting the Love you Want Marriage Retreat is “Magical”

Just as we all need a much deserved vacation, a time to get away from our surroundings and rejuvenate, so too a relationship needs time to recharge and reset. While a getaway with your spouse may do the trick, sometimes you need something more, especially if your relationship has not been nurtured and is feeling […]
How to get that honeymoon feeling back! 8 tips to rekindle the flame.

Want to get that honeymoon feeling back? Here are eight tips to rekindle the flame that really work: 1. Look into each other eyes Life can be hectic and we don’t often make the time to have that meaningful connection that we once had when we could truly bask in each other’s presence. Taking the […]
Is your love language- gifts?

While most people appreciate gifts, for some it is a CRUCIAL way in which they feel loved. If you hear your spouse complaining that you never buy them gifts, likely this is an indicator that one of his/her love languages is gifts. That is an important clue for you to start giving gifts in a […]
How Much does Marriage Counseling Cost?

How much does marriage counseling cost? When I decided over a decade ago that I wanted to spend my life helping couples, I had no intention of becoming a businessman. While I had to be compensated for my times to support my family, I was not interested in devoting hours of my time to sell […]
Does Marriage Counseling Make Things Worse?

You hear a lot about marriage counseling making things worse. Well, is that true? Does marriage counseling make things worse? More inspiration about marriage counseling that works: How should good marriage counseling work? Can I find good marriage counseling online How to make sure marriage counseling will work for you?
Does Marriage Counseling Work? Is Your Husband or Wife Afraid of Couples Therapy?

Believe it or not, it is not only couples that are afraid of marriage counseling there are many therapists out there who are terrified of working with couples and rightfully so. What if they fight in the office? How can I stop the escalation? Who does the talking and to whom? Couples, themselves, are just […]
New Year Resolution for Married Couples: How to Improve your Marriage

How to improve your marriage. What “should” your new year resolution be for the upcoming year? If you do this 1 thing, so much more will follow.
Signs You Need Intensive Marriage Therapy

What are the signs you need intensive marriage therapy or better yet, an intensive marriage counseling retreat? How do you know for certain that you need it and would benefit from such an intervention? If you answer “Yes” to the following questions below you’re a great fit If you’ve been fighting about the same issue […]
Staying present in a relationship

If you’re looking for information on staying present in a relationship then likely you know that it is all too easy to allow the pressures of daily life to distract you from the one who “should” mean the most to you. More inspiration about staying present with your partner: The easiest way to fall back […]
Is my spouse unhappy?

You’re wondering, “is my spouse unhappy?” Chances are that you already know the answer to this question and are looking for what you can do to help foster the old feelings of happiness that you used to have with each other. More inspiration when you’re wondering, “Is my spouse unhappy?” How to get that honeymoon […]
Social media is ruining my marriage!

If you often think, “Social media is ruining my marriage!”, here are 3 rules you need to follow: More information on Social Media and Your Marriage: Helpful tips to prevent a divide Is Facebook reigniting old flames? Facebook and divorce statistics Facebook and divorce stories
How to strengthen a long distance marriage
If you’re wondering how to strengthen a long distance marriage even in the case of physical distance, know this- it’s entirely doable and will take work (just like in the case of any marriage!) Here is some long distance marriage help that can help you support your relationship right now: Step 1: Give Appreciations: It’s […]
How to survive the holidays with your extended family

With the holidays approaching, no doubt you might be feeling a bit of anxiety when you think about all of the time that you and your family will be spending with extended family. Here are 3 tips on how to survive the holidays with your extended family: More issues around holiday stress and extended family: […]
Infidelity Couples Counseling
Can Cheating Save a Marriage? The Truth About Affairs and Healing- Infidelity Couples Counseling 101. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering if stepping out of your marriage would help fix things, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re already in the middle of an affair, or you’re thinking about it because things at home feel unbearable. It’s […]
How can you handle your marriage frustrations if you’re SO upset??
It’s tempting to want to lash out when you’re feeling angry and experiencing marriage frustrations. And as the picture says, it’s OK to be Angry but never OK to be cruel.
[Podcast Episode 011] When your siblings don’t like your spouse.
Are siblings meddling in your marriage? Do you dislike your brother or sister in law? Is your sister or your spouse’s sister trying to break up your relationship? What to do when your siblings don’t like your spouse? If someone in your family is trying to break up your marriage, don’t let them. They need […]
How to talk when you’re stressed

When you feel stressed, you are not able to make conscious and informed decisions. You will react out of fight/flight mode. When you learn how to speak with emotional safety, you’ll be able to calm down these fight/flight reactions and utilize your “full brain” and not just the reptilian one which is designed to protect […]
Marriage Quiz – Which Couple Are You?

Take this marriage quiz to find out what kind of couple you are!
The ONE Question that You Need to Ask Yourself Before Breaking Up

What is the 1 question to ask yourself before breaking up is: What do you need to be happy and what can you do to bring that into your relationship? Ask yourself, “When did you start becoming unhappy in this relationship? What changed?” Is it a particular scenario or event that occurred or a situation […]