How to Fix a Relationship in Five Steps
If your relationship is in crisis, the task of learning how to fix a relationship may appear daunting. In my experience of working with countless couples on the verge of relationship disaster, I have identified five proven steps to turn things around. How to fix a relationship in 5 steps. 1) Commit. While it may […]
How Self-Growth Can Wreck a Marriage: I feel more enlightened than my spouse
Can Self-Growth Ruin a Marriage? What to Do If You Feel More Enlightened Than Your Spouse Introduction Self-growth is everywhere these days—books, podcasts, therapy, retreats, even TikTok trends. As a licensed marriage counselor who has worked with thousands of couples over the past 20 years, I’ve seen firsthand how self-improvement can be both a blessing […]
PTSD in Marriage and how to help your spouse
The power of using words to process our pain and can be therapeutic for those experiencing post-traumatic stress. Holocaust survivors who did not talk about their experience found themselves suffering more than those that were able to verbalize what they went through. This point resonated with me strongly as I have witnessed the therapeutic benefit […]
Eating disorders in Marriage: Are you starved for love?
Have you ever found yourself staring at an ice cream sundae with the same kind of intensity as you would your true love? It’s as if that sundae has the power to comfort you in the way only your beloved could. While certainly the sugar rush and chocolate euphoria might help you feel fully alive […]
Why Some Marriage Counseling Fails—And How to Choose the Right Professional Over Well-Meaning Friends or Clergy
If you’ve ever wondered, “Is it worth getting marriage help from a professional?”, you’re not alone. Many couples hesitate—often because they’ve heard stories of therapy dragging on for years, costing thousands, and not actually helping. Here’s the truth: marriage counseling can absolutely work, but not all marriage counseling is created equal. The difference between […]
When your Spouse Wants More/Less Religion Than You- Couples with religious differences
As Judaism is our own faith, we use it here when we talk about help for couples with religious differences in marriage. The following marriage advice can be used for all religions. What if your husband told you that he did not want to be observant anymore? What if you and your wife are not […]
Life After Divorce for Men: How to Cope, Rebuild, and Move Forward
Divorce is one of the hardest challenges a man can face. For many, it’s not just the end of a marriage—it’s the loss of identity, daily routines, and the future you thought you’d have. If you’re asking yourself “what is life like for a man after divorce?” or “how do men cope with divorce emotionally?”—you’re […]
How to React to a Controlling Spouse
My wife is a really controlling spouse. It leads her to take on too many responsibilities and she can’t seem to handle them all. My individual therapist and I figured out that she may have the need to be super mom because of her own mother. I have seen how her mother puts her down […]
Married but Living Apart: Is It Healthy or Just a Breakup in Disguise?
The idea of being married but living apart is gaining traction. Major publications, including The New York Times, have spotlighted couples who choose to maintain separate homes while staying in committed relationships . On the surface, this arrangement can sound appealing—less friction, fewer arguments over chores, and a chance to keep things “sizzly” without the […]
Overcoming Infidelity: How to Rebuild Trust and Repair Your Relationship After Cheating
Infidelity can feel like a bomb dropped on your relationship—shattering trust, intimacy, and the very foundation you once stood on. If you’re reading this, you’re likely feeling lost, heartbroken, and unsure if healing is even possible. Here’s the truth:Many couples do survive infidelity. Some even come out stronger—more honest, connected, and emotionally secure than ever […]
Marriage After Retirement: How to Adjust to Retirement in Marriage Without Losing Your Relationship
You’ve dreamed for years of finally retiring and enjoying the rest of your life with your spouse. But many couples are surprised by the friction that retirement introduces into their marriage. Would you believe that couples who have “made it” thirty or forty-plus years still need to work on their relationship after retirement? Research shows […]
What to do when you’re experiencing inlaw problems in marriage.
Between vacations and holidays, there may be more family time than you can handle. Along with the family time can come conflict. Whether you and your spouse disagree as to how to deal with the in-laws and the issues in marriage that can arise due to a meddling mother in law or other boundaries related […]
Marriage counseling or Individual counseling for an unhappy marriage?
Marriage counseling or individual counseling? People often wonder if they should start seeing a therapist for their own “stuff” or if it would be more beneficial to attend marriage counseling together. This is a very important question. Question: Should I get a divorce or stay married? I’ve gone from definite divorce to possible divorce. My […]
“How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage”- Has this happened to you?
“How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage” is the story of too many people’s experiences yet most people are unaware of how common it is. Have you ever wondered what prompts couples to give up on their marriage? While there are certain events that can push a marriage over the edge, many couples are successfully able […]
My wife has BPD. What to do if you think your spouse has a personality disorder?
It is very frightening to think that something could be wrong with your spouse, mentally. Especially if you’ve described his/her behavior to others and they’ve said that it sounds like your spouse has a personality disorder. We’d like to provide you with some resources to let you see how it is still possible to work […]
A Popular Blogger writes a review of our Marriage help program.
We wanted to share a review that a popular blogger wrote after reading and delving into our Total Marriage Transformation video course. If you’re not familiar with our program, it’s essentially a video guided marriage counseling at home program. We thank Heather, over at MommysFavoriteThings.com for writing her review!
Parenting on the Same Page: Why Being a Good Parent Isn’t Enough.
Is your parenting on the same page as your spouse’s parenting? You’re passionate about raising your children in the best possible way and parenting on the same page. You’ve attended parenting classes, read parenting tips, and have been conscientious about being a good mom or dad. There’s one key ingredient that you might have forgotten, […]
I I Love Him, But I’m Not Happy Anymore. What Now?
Key Takeaways Loving your husband but feeling unhappy doesn’t always mean your marriage is over — it’s a signal for growth, not necessarily divorce. Happiness in marriage depends on more than love; connection, respect, and emotional safety are just as important. Every marriage enters a power struggle stage — but it can become the doorway […]
What the Bible Says About Marriage—and How It Can Transform Your Relationship
If you hold traditional values and want marriage counseling that aligns with your faith, you may wonder: What does the Bible actually say about marriage—and how should that shape counseling? Though I am an Orthodox Rabbi, my therapy practice is non-denominational. Sometimes couples who are seeking Christian marriage counseling or Bible-based therapy ask me to share […]
Online Marriage Course: The 5 Step Plan to a Happy Marriage
If you’re a DIY type of person—or you’re on a budget and can’t commit to in-person marriage counseling—an online marriage course might be the perfect solution. That’s exactly why we created The 5 Step Plan to a Happy Marriage: a self-paced course that teaches you the essential steps to repair your relationship and build lasting […]