My wife left. I want my wife back.
“I want my wife back!” If you’re a husband whose wife has “unilaterally” decided that she wants to divorce, and is unwilling to get marriage help from a professional or seek out marriage counseling, you’re going to have to learn ways on your own to stop divorce and win her back. Learn how we can […]
Want to learn how to communicate with your spouse, better?
Looking for ways to learn to know how to communicate better with your spouse? It’s going to be easier than you think. Learning how to communicate with your spouse isn’t about tricks or using “tactics”. More inspiration about communicating better: Couples Communication Coaching Do this 1 thing four times a day and see your marriage […]
A Biblical Marriage: What does the Bible Say About Marriage?
So many of you are looking for marriage counseling that is going to support your traditional marriage. You want to know how to best support a marriage that is biblical. We can help provide you with some resources that are sure to support your path towards a happy, biblical marriage.
Principles for a happy biblical marriage.
Many traditional families (not only those looking for christian marriage counseling!) want to follow the bible to enjoy a healthy, happy, biblical marriage.
Transform your anger issues in marriage into compassion.
This story will help you transform your anger issues in marriage into compassion. My toddler reminded me of an invaluable lesson last night that I wanted to share with you. Although he has learned to sleep the night, it seems that he has been getting in multiple new teeth over the past week and has […]
How to respond when your spouse is angry: Mirroring
We recommend using parts of the Imago dialogue to learn how to respond calmly and with intent when your spouse is angry, specifically mirroring. Why? Because nothing is more diffusing to someone with anger issues than to be “mirrored back”. When you repeat back what your spouse is saying and validate his/her upset feelings, you […]
Angry Spouse? What to do if you’re living with an angry wife or an angry husband.
“My wife is always mad at me!” “Why is my husband angry with me?” One of the most common yet challenging issues I see when working with couples is anger. Anger is one of the most powerful and most destructive human emotions. The long-term damage it can have on a marriage can be irreparable as […]
A Marriage Counselor’s List of Relationship Self Help Books
A glimpse into some of the relationship self help books that we recommend and have in our own library of reference material. We picked these because we’ve found them to have the most practical impact with our clients. More inspiration on relationship self help: Can relationship self help books truly save your marriage? A review […]
How to deal with financial problems in marriage
Financial problems in marriage are very serious and are one of the top reasons that couples divorce. Money need not be a catalyst for divorce provided that you handle money problems in marriage well. We’ll guide you through how to do just that. More inspiration on improving any financial problems in marriage: Build your marriage […]
Build your Marriage and Money will Flow.
Your best Investment Pick: Marriage and Money.
Marriage and Family therapy or Individual therapy for past relationship baggage?
Marriage and family therapy or Individual therapy? If you have a lot of baggage from childhood, it’s common to wonder if you should first seek out a therapist for yourself and then come back to your marriage a better person. In Imago therapy, we believe that we were all wounded in relationship and the best […]
Pre Marriage Counseling
It can take newly-married couples a while to get used to living with a permanent roommate whom they love but didn’t realize was so different from them! If you are engaged or newly married, you may have been too starry-eyed at the beginning of your relationship to listen to any marriage advice, and we do […]
We Use the Imago Dialogue in Our Marriage
When I work with couples, I help them tone down all of the stress and anxiety they may be experiencing and create an atmosphere of calm with an amazing tool called the Imago Dialogue. The Imago dialogue process is a communication tool that couples learn allows themselves to self-regulate, slow down, and feel safe enough […]
How to stop a divorce after filing papers.
How to stop a divorce after filing papers? Is it possible? Of course it is! It’s your marriage, and it’s not as complicated as it may seem. This post will include a little “legal-eze”, even though we practice marriage counseling not law, we want to provide you with some legal advice so that you can […]
Divorce Corp, A Hollywood Solution to Prevent and Stop Divorce
We recently came across a trailer for a new documentary called Divorce Corp. We don’t really know much about the people behind the documentary and when we recommend something, we usually carefully research who they are and what their approach is. That being said, it is a frightening portrayal of the family court system and […]
Should I get a divorce or a temporary separation?
Wondering if you should get a divorce or separate temporarily? Every relationship endures hardship, but you should know the signs that a relationship isn’t working and what you can do to help your marriage recover after a crisis like cheating or addiction. Read the story from an anonymous client below. Does it sound familiar? If […]
Should I get a divorce after the kids move out?
It’s common to wake up one day, especially after such a big life change such as empty nest syndrome when the kids have all grown, and feel like you are no longer attracted to your spouse. You might even be wondering, “Should I get a divorce after the kids move out?” We encourage you to […]
When is it time to give up on your marriage and file for divorce?
If your marriage is currently a miserable one, not giving you the basic things that you feel a marriage should be giving you, it’s perfectly normal that you would wonder things like- when to file for divorce? Or if you should get a divorce and just give up on marriage? We’d like to provide you […]
Should I get a divorce?
Should I get a divorce? “Why Should I Save My Marriage? My husband is boring and I’d rather just leave and be happy.- Bored wife” More inspiration about if you should get a divorce or learn how to save your marriage: When is divorce an option? Last ditch marriage counseling What’s the best way to […]
How can I tell if my wife really wants a divorce or if it is holiday stress?
How can I tell if my wife really wants a divorce? Below is a question submitted by a genuinely confused husband who wants to enjoy all of the holiday season moments with his wife and children but his wife’s anxiety from all the to-do’s overwhelm her to the point that she threatens divorce. More inspiration […]