Feeling Lonely in a Relationship? Time for Self-Care
Sometimes we can feel lonely even when we’re surrounded by our family and in a marriage relationship. Sometimes the best thing we can do is practice self-care because if we don’t take care of ourselves we won’t have the capacity to appreciate the love of others. “It’s such an unexpected luxury to have your partner’s […]
How to Cope with Silent Treatment in Marriage
Is your spouse giving you the Silent treatment? Learn how to cope with silent treatment in marriage. The words below were spoken by an anonymous client going through the same thing as you. “When my wife and I argue, we never solve anything. My wife tends to stop talking altogether. She just shuts down and […]
How to get your Spouse Back Without Even Trying.
One of the most painful phrases you can ever hear in a marriage is: “I love you, but I’m not in love with you.” When your spouse says this, it’s easy to panic. You may feel desperate to convince them to stay, explain how much you love them, or do whatever it takes to “win […]
Will my parents’ mistakes affect me when I am older?
If you grew up watching your parents argue, split up, or avoid conflict, it’s natural to wonder:“Will my parents’ mistakes affect me when I’m older?” The short answer: yes, those early experiences shape you—but they don’t have to define you. Adult children of divorce, neglect, or high-conflict homes often unconsciously repeat patterns in their marriages. […]
How does birth control affect relationships?
How does birth control affect relationships? In more ways than you might think! Many people mainly attribute birth control’s impact on relationships with regards to the sex drive and the physical symptoms that birth control can have. It’s important to be aware of the various methods and the effects that they can have on the […]
What advice do you have for couples that own businesses together?
What’s it like relationship-wise for couples that own businesses together? We work together on our marriage counseling business together and are quite familiar with both the joys and the potential tension that goes with working together and owning a business together! More resources for couples that own business together: Make communication problems disappear Are you […]
Should you forgive someone for cheating?
Should you forgive someone for cheating? The answer really depends. If you wish to stay in relationship, then forgiveness is a must at some point. However, the process doesn’t really start until the cheater makes amends and admits wrongdoing and asks for forgiveness. More inspiration about forgiving an affair: Affair recovery-how to get over an […]
Things to Say to Your Spouse Every Day to Keep the Spark Alive
When couples first fall in love, compliments and sweet words flow naturally. But over time, life gets busy, routines take over, and the spark that once felt effortless can fade. Many couples eventually ask: “How do we keep the spark alive in our marriage?” or “What should I say to my spouse every day to […]
Have you heard about Rage Rooms? For those married to an angry spouse!
Have you heard about rage rooms where you can go and find a location near you to essentially physically “act out” your stress, anger, and anxiety? Is that beneficial for you if you’re married to an angry spouse?
Why Do Marriages Fail? And How to Break Free From a Marriage Rut
Many couples ask: “Why do most marriages fail?” and “Why do some couples stay stuck while others manage to rebuild?” The truth is, marriages rarely collapse overnight. They decline slowly — through unresolved conflict, loss of connection, and unhealthy patterns that build over time. As a licensed therapist who has worked with hundreds of couples […]
How to save a marriage even if you’ve fallen out of love.
Are you trying to figure out how to save your marriage but feel that the love in your relationship has diminished? Couples often come into my office with a heart of stone. While at one time they did feel love for their spouse, that feeling has dulled over the years, usually after experiencing pain, frustration, […]
What do you do if your husband does not want to talk?
What do you do if your husband is willing to “work” on the relationship but only on his terms? What do you do if you want to discuss past hurts and get an apology while he just wants to move forward? He is too tired when he comes home and your husband does not want […]
Structured Family Therapy
We have found that family therapy is an effective way of healing old wounds, opening communication, and reuniting family members. Whether it’s an adult parent and child, in-laws, or siblings, we have been able to help these family members reconnect after years of misunderstandings and estrangement- through structured family therapy. More inspiration on family therapy: […]
Couples Therapy Exercises Based on Imago Therapy
Want to talk to your husband or wife about something important but don’t know how to bring it up without starting a fight or scaring them away? Whether you’re an introvert, an empath, or find it difficult to have a conversation about something important with your partner; the key to a happy marriage is communication. […]
My Marriage is Falling Apart
There’s nothing that feels worse than the feeling in the pit of your stomach when you realize, “my marriage is falling apart”. When you realize that your marriage is falling apart you want something that is going to work and going to work now. More inspiration for you when you are worried about a marriage […]
Sex Education for Married Couples: How to Keep the Spark Alive
Many couples quietly wonder: “Is it normal for desire to fade after marriage?” or “How do we keep intimacy alive after years together?” These questions are so common that searches like sex education for married couples and how to keep the spark alive in marriage appear in forums every day. The truth? Desire naturally ebbs […]
Relationship Questions About Money to Answer Before You Get Married
Money is one of the top sources of conflict in marriage, right alongside communication and intimacy. Research consistently shows that financial disagreements are a leading predictor of divorce¹. That’s why it’s crucial to talk about money early in your relationship—ideally before you get married. If you’re already married, don’t worry. It’s never too late to […]
How to save a marriage with a Relationship Detox
Sometimes your relationship just gets into a really negative space and you feel like you need a relationship detox. Here’s how to save a marriage with a relationship detox! Here are 3 ways that you can start your “relationship detox” so that you can begin learning how to save a marriage. 1. Stop verbal abuse […]
What do happy couples do differently?
What do happy couples do differently? More inspiration about happy couples and what happy couples do differently: Want to be one of the lucky ones? What it takes to have a successful marriage How to be happy in an unhappy marriage Is my spouse unhappy?
What It Really Takes to Have a Happy Marriage (Not Just “Staying Together”)
If you’ve ever browsed Reddit’s r/relationships or r/marriage, you know the questions: “Why are some couples still so in love after 20 years?” “Can my marriage survive an affair?” “Why do I feel unhappy even though nothing is ‘wrong’?” These aren’t just internet debates—they’re real struggles couples face every day. And the truth is, happy […]