When Should You Use Imago Dialogue? A Practical Guide for Couples
The Imago Dialogue process isn’t just a communication tool—it’s a structured way to heal, reconnect, and finally feel heard. But many couples wonder: When should we actually use it? Is it just for big blowups? Or can it work for everyday frustrations too? This guide explores common situations where the Imago Dialogue helps, why it […]
How to Rebuild Trust After Infidelity: Why an Intensive Couples Retreat Works Faster Than Weekly Therapy
Infidelity is one of the most painful betrayals a marriage can face. Whether it’s an emotional affair or physical adultery, it shakes the very foundation of trust. For many couples, the immediate reaction is: “Can we survive this? Or is our marriage over?” The good news: healing is possible. But it requires more than time. […]
How to Suggest Marriage Counseling or Couples Therapy Without Freaking Them Out
Wondering how to bring up couples therapy to your partner? Suggesting relationship therapy or marriage counseling to your partner without freaking them out can be challenging if you don’t approach the subject carefully. Just bringing up the subject of counseling can make a defensive partner think you’re implying that something is wrong with the marriage. […]
5 Surprising Ways a Marriage Retreat Changes More Than Your Relationship
If you’re weighing a marriage retreat vs counseling and wondering “are marriage retreats worth it?”, here’s the short answer: a well-run couples therapy intensive (sometimes called marathon couples therapy) can compress months of progress into two focused days—especially when you need traction fast. (Weekly tune-ups can come after the intensive to lock in gains.) As […]
Imago Therapy Will Teach You How to Fight With Your Partner
Many people talk about fighting rules for relationship. Imago Therapy will teach you how to fight with your partner the right way, which is not to fight at all, but a real discussion about the most difficult issues and walk away even more connected than before. This is important because conflict is not productive and […]
Is Imago Therapy More Effective Than Traditional Marriage Counseling? What Couples Need to Know
When couples reach a breaking point, many turn to traditional marriage counseling hoping for clarity and repair. But what happens when therapy doesn’t work—or worse, makes things feel more hopeless? Many couples ask, ‘Why didn’t marriage counseling work for us?’ or search for answers like, ‘Is Imago therapy better than traditional counseling?’ If you’ve tried […]
When Marriage Counseling Doesn’t Work: 3 Situations (and What To Do Instead)
The problem with “standard” counseling in urgent situations Most couples get 50–60 minutes once a week. In calm seasons, that’s fine. In crisis, it can feel like you barely start before the session ends, then spend six more days destabilizing. Research on therapy “dose” shows improvement grows with session count—so when the house is on […]
What is the Ideal Marriage Retreat Length of Time?
When you’re considering a marriage retreat or intensive, one of the first questions that comes up is: “How long should a marriage retreat be to make real progress?” The answer matters. Too short, and you don’t have enough time to address the deeper issues. Too long, and it can feel emotionally draining or impractical. Let’s […]
Researching Marriage Retreats Near You? Here’s What You Need to Know
If you’ve been searching “marriage retreats near me” or “best couples retreat for saving marriage”, you’re not alone. Many couples on forums like Reddit and Quora ask whether retreats actually work, whether they need to travel for the best ones, and what to expect when attending. The truth is: not all retreats are created equal. […]
5 Relationship Books That Might Actually Help You Be a Better Partner (And the One Course That Puts It All Into Practice)
If you’re searching for relationship books that might actually help you be a better partner, you’re not alone. Many couples turn to books for insight and inspiration when their marriage feels disconnected. The right book can give you a new lens on your relationship, validate what you’re experiencing, and even offer practical tools to try […]
How to Pick the Best Marriage Retreat for You and Your Partner?
If you are searching the internet for marriage help, you may be wondering how to pick the best marriage retreat for you and your partner. There are so many options out there and it’s hard to know which one will be best for you. Here are a few things to keep in mind: Here are […]
Is There a Way to Save a Failing Marriage Where Divorce Seems Imminent? Yes, Try a Marriage Retreat.
Are you wondering if there is a way to save a failing marriage where divorce seems imminent? Although it seems quite unlikely to turn things around so dramatically when your relationship seems like it’s at the end of its rope, we have seen countless couples do a 180 and change the direction of their marriage. […]
How to Prepare for Your First Marriage Counseling Session and What to Expert
Written by Shlomo Slatkin, MS, LCPC, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. Rabbi Shlomo has worked with thousands of couples worldwide through both weekly counseling and his signature two-day Marriage Intensive retreats which are likened to 6 months of highly effective therapy. If you’re wondering what really happens in marriage counseling—and how […]
What Really Happens on a Marriage Retreat: 4 Things You Can Expect
If you’re considering a marriage retreat, you probably feel a mix of hope and hesitation. Will this really help us? What will actually happen there? That’s a smart question to ask. The truth is: not all marriage retreats are alike. Some are lightly structured, others highly intensive. But the best retreats share a few transformative […]
What to Do If Your Spouse Wants a Divorce and You Don’t
If your spouse wants a divorce and you don’t, it’s one of the most painful and frightening situations you can face. The fear of losing your partner — and the life you’ve built — can cause panic, desperation, and reactive decisions. But while those feelings are normal, how you handle this moment can determine whether […]
Online Couples Therapy vs In-person Counseling
Many people wonder about what’s more effective, face-to-face or over the Internet. Let’s take a look: online couples therapy vs in-person marriage counseling. Even if you might think in-person is more effective, there are still many important factors to consider when deciding to find a marriage counselor, if you’re going to go the in-person route. […]
How Marriage Intensives can help you stop marital fights before they start
While it’s unreasonable to think that marriage intensives will eradicate all conflict in a relationship, they can definitely help. By getting to the core issues of your relationship and teaching you practical tools that will help you navigate through the difficult topics and feel more connected, you will find yourself feeling closer to each other […]
What to Expect in Your First Imago Therapy Session (and How It Differs from Traditional Counseling)
If you’ve been considering couples therapy, you may be wondering: What actually happens in an Imago therapy session—and how is it different from traditional counseling? That’s a smart question. Many couples hesitate to start therapy because they worry a counselor will take sides, or that sessions will feel like more of the same arguments they […]
Should You Attend a Marriage Counseling Intensive Retreat to Fix Your Marriage?
Ask Yourself These 4 Powerful Questions First When your marriage feels off-track, the options can be overwhelming: Therapy. Books. Online courses. Retreats. Workshops. Where do you even begin? If you’re tired of spinning your wheels and wondering if anything will really help, you’re not alone. The truth is, traditional weekly therapy isn’t always enough — […]
Private Marriage Retreat vs. Group Marriage Workshop: How to Choose the Right One
When deciding between a private marriage retreat vs group marriage workshop, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the options. The right choice can depend on factors like urgency, privacy, personal attention, and follow-up care. In this guide, we’ll help you compare our Private Marriage Intensives and our Getting the Love You Want® Group Workshops so […]