Marriage Stress: A Change of Scenery May Help
If you feel trapped by marriage stress and stress from life in general, you may just benefit from a change of scenery.
FAQs: Your Questions About Marriage Retreats Answered
Get answers to all of your questions about retreats for couples right here. Didn’t find the answer you were looking for? Send us a question online and we’ll be in touch with answers and to help schedule your retreat. What is the Purpose of Attending a Marriage Retreat? Marriage retreats are ideal for marriages in […]
Did I Marry the Right Person?
“Did I marry the right person?” While you may expect this question to be reserved for newlyweds, unfortunately, there are couples who are grandparents still asking this question. I find this question to be one of the most destructive questions you could ask about your marriage. Living with an unhappy marriage can be one of […]
How to reduce fighting in front of the kids
How can we reduce fighting in front of the kids? This important piece of marriage advice on the topic of how to stop fighting in front of the kids, is a critical one and should be implemented the minute you finish reading this page! It can be very difficult to stop fighting in front of […]
Can I revive a failed marriage?
My daughter had a friend over recently whose own parents recently divorced. When she found out I am a marriage counselor, she said, “But isn’t it true that some marriages are just meant to fail? I mean, my parents tried everything and there was nothing more that they could do. That’s just how it was […]
Anxiety is ruining my marriage, Help!
Anxiety is ruining my marriage, help! With all of the stress that is going on in the world and in the news coupled with managing work, the family, and all of your day to day responsibilities it’s no wonder that so many of you feel anxious! The effects of anxiety can ruin romantic relationships, marriages, […]
Rebuild Trust in a Marriage: in the case of prior love relationships.
Previous love relationships can sometimes threaten the trust between a husband and wife. If talks about your spouse’s prior love relationships and previous boyfriends or girlfriends have contributed to a break down in trust between the two of you, this post will help you learn how to rebuild trust in a marriage. More inspiration on […]
“The Dangers of Diagnosis” II- When Spouse has a Personality Disorder
The first article I wrote on the Dangers of Diagnosis brought out strong responses. Some agreed wholeheartedly, others felt I minimized the pain of living with a spouse who struggles with serious mental illness. My goal here is to clarify, especially when the issue involves a suspected personality disorder. What to do when you think […]
My spouse has a diagnosis of a personality disorder- The Danger of Diagnosis
If you’ve recently discovered that your spouse has a diagnosis of a personality disorder, no doubt that you may secretly think that you made a mistake in choosing him/her. There’s more to the picture though and you need to keep reading! “I think my husband has Aspergers or a personality disorder; is it possible to […]
Spouse has ADHD? Link Between ADHD Spouse & Anger Issues in Marriage
Do you have an “ADHD spouse”? We counsel a lot of couples who are experiencing anger in their relationship. Interestingly enough, that anger could be an indicator that one spouse has ADHD. We asked Dr Melissa Orlov, an ADHD expert and author of The ADHD Effect on Marriage, for her input on the topic. We’ll […]
How to Deal With a Needy Spouse — And Decide If the Marriage Can Be Saved
Are you considering divorce because your spouse’s emotional needs feel overwhelming? You may relate to the following question from a reader we addressed —a spouse contemplating divorce due to exhaustion from dealing with a “needy” partner. Reader Question: “My wife over the last week has told me she wants a divorce but not until after […]
Fear of drifting apart in a relationship
Are you afraid that you’ve been drifting apart in a relationship? Staying happily married requires active participation in growing the relationship. If you’re not careful, it’s easy to drift apart from your spouse. More inspiration for how to prevent drifting apart in a marriage: 3 ways to infuse love into a relationship What to do […]
How to be Happy in an Unhappy Marriage: Turn it Around
Are you in an unhappy marriage? Like you are doing all the work in your relationship? Are you at your wits’ end? It is extremely disappointing and exasperating if your spouse has “checked out” of his/her role in your relationship. You are probably feeling lonely and hopeless that your marriage will ever be what you […]
When you’re looking for Affordable Marriage Counseling
If you’re looking for affordable marriage counseling, know this. You get what you pay for. The “cheapest” marriage counselor is not going to be the best marriage counselor, most likely. However, there is room to go after high quality marriage counseling and work to make it as affordable as possible. Need more inspiration? Read the […]
Part II of How to Respond to Your Angry Spouse
Two weeks ago I wrote about how to respond to your angry spouse. Readers had a lot to say about it. Below are some of the comments/questions and my response. Look forward to your continued feedback!
Online Marriage Help: Does it Work? Or Make Things Worse?
Humans are fallible and so are marriage counselors. The good news is that once you understand why some marriage counseling doesn’t work and may make things worse, then you are much better equipped to choosing online marriage help that WILL work. More inspiration about marriage counseling that works: Our 90% marriage counseling success rate Does […]
Active Listening vs. Defensive Listening: How to Really Hear Your Spouse
When your spouse says something that stings, do you find yourself reacting, defending, or shutting down? You might think you’re a good listener, but the real difference between couples who stay connected and couples who drift apart often comes down to how they listen. On relationship forums like Reddit, many partners ask: “How do I […]
Organize together and create a Romantic Master Bedroom
Is a Romantic Master Bedroom the Secret to a Happy Marriage? More inspiration on organizing together: Free online marriage counseling on household management Organizing can save your marriage
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I’m married to a narcissistic husband. Please help!
Recently a client reached out and said “I’m married to a narcissistic husband, please help!” We helped her and her husband identify behavioral patterns and learn to create emotional safety using the Imago communication method. Here’s another question from a wife about whether or not her husband has narcissistic personality disorder and how it is […]