What to Do When You and Your Spouse Have Different Parenting Styles
While we may hate to admit it, no relationship is completely stress- and conflict-free. Each couple faces unique disagreements and stress points in their relationship, whether it’s due to money issues or arguments about how to best raise the kids. For many, conflict stems from different parenting styles—when one spouse prefers one approach and the […]
Dealing with an Insecure Husband: How to Reassure Without Losing Yourself
In any relationship or marriage, no matter how strong or how long you’ve been together, there are bumps in the road that can arise. This can especially be the case for couples in which one spouse suffers from anxiety or insecurity about themselves or the relationship. Some insecurities may be founded in reality, such as […]
Should You Check Your Husband’s Browsing History?
In today’s digital world, we are more connected than ever—through phones, laptops, gaming systems, and social media platforms. While technology makes communication instant and convenient, it also brings unique challenges for relationships. One of the most common issues couples face today is digital mistrust. With so many opportunities for online connection, partners may begin to […]
Why Do I Feel Like My Husband Is Hiding Something? Signs of Secrecy & How to Talk About It
You’ve noticed something’s off. He’s more protective of his phone, avoiding eye contact, or suddenly spending more time away from home. Your gut says he’s hiding something—and it leaves you anxious, alone, and unsure of where to turn. If you’re here, it’s because you want answers—and hope. The good news is secrecy in marriage doesn’t […]
My Husband Criticizes Me: How to Handle Constant Criticism in Marriage
No relationship is perfect, and neither is your spouse, no matter how much you love them and trust them. There are times that your partner can be challenging or disruptive, which can inevitably lead to you feeling frustrated and overwhelmed, resulting in your criticizing their behavior or actions. And while some criticism can be helpful, […]
Breaking the Cycle of Resentment: How to Let Go and Move Forward
No matter how long you’ve been together, every relationship can have highs and lows. From the excitement of first getting married to the challenges of everyday commitments and responsibilities that come soon after, there are countless hurdles that couples must work together to overcome each and every single day in their relationship. This process involves […]
Should We Get Divorced or Try Marriage Counseling? Understanding the True Price of Divorce
You’ve probably had this thought: “We can’t go on like this — maybe it’s time to end it.” But right behind that thought often comes another: “What if we could fix it instead?” When couples reach the point of considering divorce, they’re standing at one of the hardest crossroads in life. You may feel exhausted, […]
The Role of Self-Care in a Strong Marriage: How Taking Care of Yourself Helps the Relationship
When thinking about ways to keep a marriage vibrant and healthy, we often find ourselves considering aspects that involve both partners. Whether it’s maintaining healthy and open communication, making sure to dedicate ample quality time together or simply taking the time to show how much you care about your partner, it’s easy to understand why […]
Rough Patch in a Relationship or Something Deeper? When to Seek Therapy
very relationship goes through ups and downs—but how do you know if it’s just a rough patch or a sign of something deeper? Many couples Google questions like: ‘How do I know if this is normal or if we need therapy?’ In this post, we’ll help you recognize the difference between temporary struggles and long-term […]
Handling Financial Disputes: Practical Tips for Money Harmony in Marriage
In any successful marriage or partnership, there is often one point of contention that can arise, no matter how communicative and transparent you are with one another – finances. Whether you’re financially stable and secure or carefully budgeting month to month, it can be easy to reach points of disagreement or outright argument when money […]
Can Your Marriage Survive after a Loss? How to Support a Grieving Spouse While Protecting Your Bond
When tragedy strikes – Gd forbid—whether it’s the sudden death of a loved one, the loss of a long-held career, or another life-altering event—it doesn’t just affect the person experiencing the loss. It ripples through the relationship, testing the connection between partners in ways neither may have expected. To ensure your marriage can survive after […]
Surviving the Holidays After an Affair
While the holiday season may bring about fond memories and happy times spent with friends and family, there are some situations that can cause insurmountable stress and despair, such as experiencing the turmoil of infidelity. This betrayal is often felt tenfold during the holiday season, which is meant to be a season of celebrating love […]
The Silent Treatment: How to Communicate Through Conflict Without Withdrawal
The Silent Treatment: How to Communicate Through Conflict Without Withdrawal Conflict in marriage is inevitable. Whether it’s a disagreement about dinner or a major family decision, the way you handle conflict can either strengthen your relationship or create distance. One of the most damaging responses? The silent treatment. While withdrawing may feel like a safe […]
Burnout and Your Marriage: Supporting Each Other Through Stress
Is Work Stress Coming Between You and Your Partner? If you’ve noticed that your partner comes home quiet, tense, or checked out lately — you’re not imagining it. Many couples today say the same thing: “We barely talk anymore because of work.” When one or both partners are in high-stress jobs or dealing with ongoing […]
We’re Drifting Apart: How to Stay Close During Life’s Big Changes
Are You Feeling More Like Roommates Than Partners Lately? Many couples hit a point where they ask themselves, “What happened to us?” It could be after the kids leave home, when a job changes, a parent dies, or even when retirement begins. You thought things would feel easier—but instead, you’re fighting more or barely talking. […]
Can a Marriage Survive Political Differences? How to Stop Fighting and Reconnect
If you’ve ever thought, “My spouse and I fight constantly about politics” or “My husband is obsessed with politics—what do I do?”, you’re not alone. In today’s polarized world, political disagreements are straining even the strongest marriages. Politics can spark heated arguments, hurt feelings, and resentment. One spouse may feel dismissed or attacked when the […]
10 Date-Night Ideas to Rekindle Your Relationship
When you think back on the history and health of your marriage and relationship, it’s easy to see that for many couples, the most exciting period is when you initially start dating. From completing all the ‘firsts’ of a new relationship together, like your first dinner out, first dance, and first kiss, to the excitement […]
Supporting Your Spouse During Stressful Times: How to Stay Connected When Life Gets Hard
All of us face stressful seasons in life. But lately, challenges feel especially heavy—world conflict, financial uncertainty, health concerns. Even if the stress isn’t directly about your marriage, outside pressures inevitably spill over into the relationship. In times like these, marriage matters more than ever. Your partner should be a safe haven—a source of comfort, […]
After the Affair: How Honest Communication Can Help You Heal or Move On
Learning to Communicate Again After Infidelity Learning how to communicate again after experiencing infidelity is one of the most difficult obstacles a couple can face in a lifetime. However, it’s worth putting in the work because a relationship can never experience a deep emotional connection if partners cannot express themselves openly and feel understood. Infidelity […]
Do You Believe in Soulmates? What Imago Therapy Teaches Us About Marriage
Everywhere from Reddit threads to dinner table debates, people ask: “Are soulmates real — or just a romantic myth?” As a Rabbi and psychotherapist, I see this question come up often in my work with couples. From an Imago Relationship Therapy perspective, the answer isn’t as simple as yes or no. In many ways, soulmates […]