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Rabbi Shlomo and his wife, Rivka, were once that struggling couple—nearly two decades ago. After facing their own challenges in 23 years of marriage, raising five kids, and working with thousands of couples, they developed a powerful approach to healing relationships. Their personal journey from conflict to deep connection inspired them to dedicate their lives to helping others do the same.

3 Ways You Can Truly Help Save Your Friend’s Marriage
When someone you care about is going through a marriage crisis, it’s natural to want to help. But here’s the hard truth: sometimes, even with
Healing After Infidelity: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
Healing After Infidelity: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust in Your Marriage If you’ve just discovered your spouse was unfaithful, it may feel like your world
How can you go to couples therapy when your spouse betrayed you?
If your trust has been broken by your spouse—through infidelity, lies, financial betrayal, or other breaches—you may be asking: “Why should I even consider couples
How Long Does Infidelity Recovery Take? A Weekly vs. 2-Day Intensive Timeline You Can Trust
Every couple is different. With weekly counseling, many feel some relief within weeks, and deeper rebuilding often takes 12–24 months. With a 2-day intensive plus
10 Date-Night Ideas to Rekindle Your Relationship
When you think back on the history and health of your marriage and relationship, it’s easy to see that for many couples, the most exciting

When Communication Isn’t Enough: Signs You Need Marriage Therapy or a Retreat
Alex and Jordan’s story is all too familiar: once full of laughter and late-night talks, their marriage now revolves around schedules, chores, and conflict. The

Fantasizing About Not Being Married? 3 Signs It’s Time for Marriage Counseling
Don’t wait to get help with your marriage, especially if your relationship has become so unhappy that you’re thinking about what it would be like
A Get-a-Way to Restore Your Marriage: Upcoming Events & Marriage Intensive Retreats
For any couple who has reached a breaking point in their marriage, it can be daunting to even admit that you may need help. But
Marriage After Retirement: How to Adjust to Retirement in Marriage Without Losing Your Relationship
You’ve dreamed for years of finally retiring and enjoying the rest of your life with your spouse. But many couples are surprised by the friction
Should I get a divorce after the kids move out?
It’s common to wake up one day, especially after a big life change like empty nest syndrome, and wonder: “Do I still want to be

How to Stop Fight-or-Flight Reactions in Your Marriage
When you feel stressed, it’s hard to make conscious and informed decisions. Instead, your brain shifts into fight-or-flight mode—reacting automatically rather than thoughtfully. In relationships,

What is the Ideal Marriage Retreat Length of Time?
When you’re considering a marriage retreat or intensive, one of the first questions that comes up is: “How long should a marriage retreat be to
Dealing with an Insecure Husband: How to Reassure Without Losing Yourself
In any relationship or marriage, no matter how strong or how long you’ve been together, there are bumps in the road that can arise. This
How to Overcome Resentment in Marriage and Rebuild Connection
Resentment in marriage is one of the most common issues couples face. Left unresolved, it can quietly erode intimacy, trust, and connection. If you’ve been
What Percentage of Marriages Survive Counseling? And Why the Right Therapist Makes All the Difference
If you’ve tried marriage counseling before and walked away more discouraged than hopeful, you’re not alone. Many couples come to us saying things like, “Therapy
Imago vs. EFT vs. Gottman: What Works Best in a Weekend Retreat?
If you’re considering a couples therapy weekend, you’ll quickly encounter three names over and over: Imago Relationship Therapy (IRT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and The
Half of All Emotional Affairs End with Physical Cheating. Here’s Why—and What You Can Do About It
It starts out so innocently. You’re texting someone who “just gets you.” They ask how your day is. They remember that your mom was in
Online Family Counseling: Is Zoom Therapy Right for Your Family?
Families have always faced conflict—between parents and children, siblings, or extended relatives. What’s new is how we can resolve these disputes. Today, families can meet
You Can Be Right or You Can Be in Relationship: Politics is ruining my marriage!
Politics Is Ruining My Marriage: Can We Survive Different Beliefs? Have you ever thought: “Politics is ruining my marriage!” “My spouse and I can’t stop

Interview with Laura Doyle, Author of “First Kill All The Marriage Counselors”
Have you heard of the book, First Kill All the Marriage Counselors? We have, and we interviewed the author for our podcast, “Can this Marriage
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