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Rabbi Shlomo and his wife, Rivka, were once that struggling couple—nearly two decades ago. After facing their own challenges in 23 years of marriage, raising five kids, and working with thousands of couples, they developed a powerful approach to healing relationships. Their personal journey from conflict to deep connection inspired them to dedicate their lives to helping others do the same.
[Podcast Episode] What Stage of Relationship or Marriage Are You In?
Key Takeaways Why Understanding the Stages of Marriage Matters Every relationship evolves. Knowing which stage you’re in can: Psychologists like Harville Hendrix (Getting the Love
[Podcast Episode] Healing Relationship Anxiety & Generational Trauma
Key Takeaways Why Anxiety in Relationships Runs So Deep We are wounded in relationships — often in childhood — and those wounds shape how we
When Siblings Meddle in Your Marriage: What to Do
Key Takeaways Family interference — especially siblings meddling in your marriage — can create conflict and emotional distance between spouses. Often, siblings don’t understand the

[Podcast Episode 008] Doing Whatever It Takes to Fix Your Marriage
Key Takeaways The couples who succeed are those who commit to doing whatever it takes, even when it’s uncomfortable. “Whatever it takes” means taking personal
How to Deal With a Passive Aggressive Husband (or Wife)
Key Takeaways Passive aggressive behavior = indirect resistance instead of open communication. Common signs: procrastination, sarcasm, silent treatment, and “forgetting” commitments. Causes may include conflict
I I Love Him, But I’m Not Happy Anymore. What Now?
Key Takeaways Loving your husband but feeling unhappy doesn’t always mean your marriage is over — it’s a signal for growth, not necessarily divorce. Happiness

“I love you but I am not in love with you: What It Means & How to Respond
Key Takeaways Why Your Spouse Says “I Love You But I’m Not in Love With You” Hearing these words is devastating. Many husbands describe it
Imago Therapy for Jewish Couples: Healing Relationships with Jewish Values
Presented by Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor & Certified Imago Therapist Jewish couples today face unique challenges balancing tradition, family expectations, and the
Communication Problems in Marriage: Why They Happen & How to Fix Them
Key Takeaways Communication issues are the #1 reported relationship problem among couples. Misunderstandings, invalidation, and defensive responses erode trust and closeness. Effective communication requires validation,

[Podcast Episode 006] Validation Techniques for Couples
Feeling Heard & Validated: Why It Matters in Marriage In a recent podcast conversation, Rivka shared a moment that may hit home for many couples:
How Anxiety Impacts Marriage: Childhood Roots, Disconnection, and Healing Options
Anxiety is one of the most silent but destructive forces in a marriage. It doesn’t just show up as nervous thoughts or restless nights—it often
Best Couples Retreats Near You: How to Find the Right Marriage Counseling Retreat
When it comes to marriage, there’s little many of us wouldn’t do to keep it flourishing. But when day-to-day stressors start weighing heavily on your
10 Date-Night Ideas to Rekindle Your Relationship
When you think back on the history and health of your marriage and relationship, it’s easy to see that for many couples, the most exciting
7 Best Marriage Intensives in 2025 (Expert Guide + Proven Model)
When your marriage feels strained, the usual hour-a-week therapy model may not deliver fast or lasting change. That’s why many couples are turning to marriage
The 10 Commandments for Start-Up Families: How Couple Entrepreneurs Can Succeed in Business and Marriage
Couples who build businesses together face a unique paradox: their “why” is usually to create financial freedom and impact the world — but the demands

Divorce Prevention Retreats: How an Intensive Marriage Counseling Retreat Can Save Your Marriage
On the Brink of Divorce? There’s Still Hope Has your marriage spiraled out of control? If you feel like you’re one step away from splitting
Questions to Ask Before Booking a Couples Therapy Weekend
When couples contact me about attending my private marriage retreat, the first thing I tell them is this: not all couples therapy weekends are created
Weekend Marriage Retreat vs. Weekly Counseling: Pros and Cons (And a Better Third Option)
If your relationship feels at a breaking point, the right type of support can make all the difference. But which approach works best — ongoing
Marriage Retreat Success Stories & Intensive Testimonials: What Couples Learned in Just 2 Days
When couples arrive at a marriage retreat or intensive, many are carrying years of hurt, unresolved conflict, or emotional distance. Some are in crisis, wondering
What to Expect at a 2-Day Marriage Intensive (Sample Schedule)
Why Couples Choose an Intensive When your marriage feels stuck, weekly 50-minute therapy sessions can feel too slow. Just as the conversation starts to open
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