(Relationship Advice) Do This One Thing & See Your Marriage Improve
If you want to work on your relationship where do you start? A piece of advice: don’t make it too complicated. The 4 critical moments-daily relationship advice Some of the most effective actions you can take for your relationship are rather simple yet if you commit to doing them on a regular basis, you will […]
Online Relationship Advice from an Atheist
We read this piece called- Online relationship advice written by an Atheist – and wanted to share it’s message with you and our reply. I don’t believe in anything but I’m pretty devoted to the traditional view of marriage — not in the sexist sense, but in the sense of two people completely committed to […]
My Wife Moved Out — What Marriage Counseling Advice Do You Have for Me?
When Your Wife Moves Out: What You Can (and Can’t) Control It’s painful when the person you love most walks away — literally.You might feel shocked, desperate, or even angry, wondering: “My wife moved out. What can I possibly do to fix this?” The truth is, marriage counseling won’t work if one partner refuses to […]
Our Marriage Help Home Program
If you’ve thought about getting help for your marriage and you feel resistant to the idea of going for reasons like cost, feeling unsure about whether or not it is going to really help your situation, having to find a therapist that is the right fit for you and your spouse, and/or your spouse is […]
Is It Normal to Fight a Lot While Engaged? What It Really Means
If You’re Engaged but Fighting All the Time, You’re Not Alone Wondering “Is it normal to fight a lot while engaged?”Or thinking: “We’re not married yet and always fighting — is this a bad sign?” “Should we get married if we fight a lot?” “Why do engaged couples fight so much?” These are some of […]
How Can I Tell If My Wife Really Wants a Divorce or If It’s Holiday Stress?
Every year, many couples struggle more in November and December than any other time of year. The pressure to create a “perfect holiday” can bring up exhaustion, resentment, and anxiety—especially when one partner feels like they’re carrying the emotional and logistical load for everyone. That’s exactly what one husband asked us recently: “I don’t understand […]
Should I get a divorce?
Should I get a divorce? “Why Should I Save My Marriage? My husband is boring and I’d rather just leave and be happy.- Bored wife” More inspiration about if you should get a divorce or learn how to save your marriage: When is divorce an option? Last ditch marriage counseling What’s the best way to […]
When Is It Time to Give Up on Your Marriage and File for Divorce?
Many people in painful, lonely, or chronically stressful marriages eventually wonder:“When is it time to give up?”“How do I know if my marriage is over?”“Should I file for divorce, or try counseling one last time?” These questions are among the most common searches couples make—especially when they feel emotionally drained, disconnected, or stuck in patterns […]
Should I get a divorce after the kids move out?
It’s common to wake up one day, especially after a big life change like empty nest syndrome, and wonder: “Do I still want to be with my spouse now that the kids are gone?” Without the busyness of parenting, many couples suddenly face relationship challenges they had been too distracted to notice before. Maybe you’re […]
Should I Get a Divorce or a Temporary Separation?
Feeling Torn Between Divorce and Separation? It’s one of the hardest questions a married person can ask: “Should I get a divorce… or would a temporary separation help us heal?” When your relationship feels stuck or broken, you may think time apart will bring clarity. But before you pack a bag or hire an attorney, […]
Divorce Corp, A Hollywood Solution to Prevent and Stop Divorce
We recently came across a trailer for a new documentary called Divorce Corp. We don’t really know much about the people behind the documentary and when we recommend something, we usually carefully research who they are and what their approach is. That being said, it is a frightening portrayal of the family court system and […]
How to Stop a Divorce After Filing Papers
Can You Stop a Divorce After Filing? Absolutely. It’s your marriage — and even if the divorce papers have already been filed, that doesn’t mean it’s too late to stop the process. While the legal system has its procedures, what matters most right now is your commitment to doing everything possible to reconcile. If you’ve […]
We Use the Imago Dialogue in Our Marriage
When I work with couples, I help them tone down all of the stress and anxiety they may be experiencing and create an atmosphere of calm with an amazing tool called the Imago Dialogue. The Imago dialogue process is a communication tool that couples learn allows themselves to self-regulate, slow down, and feel safe enough […]
Pre Marriage Counseling
It can take newly-married couples a while to get used to living with a permanent roommate whom they love but didn’t realize was so different from them! If you are engaged or newly married, you may have been too starry-eyed at the beginning of your relationship to listen to any marriage advice, and we do […]
Marriage and Family Therapy vs. Individual Therapy: What’s Best for Healing Past Relationship Baggage?
When you carry emotional baggage from your past—childhood wounds, unresolved family conflict, or scars from prior relationships—it’s natural to wonder whether you should first see a therapist on your own before tackling marriage issues with your partner. Many people think, “If I work on myself individually, won’t I come back as a better spouse?” It’s […]
Build your Marriage and Money will Flow.
The Best Investment You’ll Ever Make Isn’t in the Stock Market What’s your best investment pick? Apple? Google? JPMorganChase?Financial advisors might recommend stocks, bonds, or real estate — but the most reliable investment with the highest emotional and financial return is your marriage. Unlike the market, your marriage doesn’t depend on global trends or quarterly […]
How to Deal With Financial Problems in Marriage (When Money Stress Is Hurting Your Relationship)
Financial problems in marriage are one of the top predictors of divorce, but they don’t have to end a relationship. Many couples search for: how to fix financial problems in marriage, how to stop fighting about money, how to manage finances as a couple, what to do when money issues are destroying our marriage, —and […]
What to Do If Your Spouse Won’t Work on Your Marriage
One of the hardest questions I hear from readers is:“What do I do if my spouse doesn’t want to work on our marriage?” When the person you love most refuses counseling or even admits they’re unsure how they feel about you, it can leave you feeling hopeless, alone, and desperate for answers. But here’s the […]
Free Online Marriage Counseling on Household Management
When we were first married, we realized quickly that both of us had different ideas of what de-cluttering the house “should” look like. This free online marriage counseling on household management is a rudimentary step to make your marriage successful. More inspiration on household management as a couple: The 4 Clutter Personality Types Start with […]
Can Books and Marriage Videos Truly Save Your Marriage?
We know that many couples feel hesitant about going to marriage counseling. Maybe you’re afraid of dredging up old baggage, worried a therapist might take sides, or convinced that the process will take months of sessions you don’t have time for. If your spouse is resistant to therapy, there’s good news: you can begin the […]