(Relationship Advice) Do This One Thing & See Your Marriage Improve
If you want to work on your relationship where do you start? A piece of advice: don’t make it too complicated. The 4 critical moments-daily relationship advice Some of the most effective actions you can take for your relationship are rather simple yet if you commit to doing them on a regular basis, you will […]
Online Relationship Advice from an Atheist
We read this piece called- Online relationship advice written by an Atheist – and wanted to share it’s message with you and our reply. I don’t believe in anything but I’m pretty devoted to the traditional view of marriage — not in the sexist sense, but in the sense of two people completely committed to […]
My wife moved out. What marriage counseling advice do you have for me?
My wife moved out. Marriage counseling won’t work if you can’t get your wife to come to a session. And our marriage counseling advice does NOT include pressuring your wife to come on board. While in general, there is usually a “dragger” and a “draggee”, one spouse being more reluctant to come to counseling, marriage […]
Our Marriage Help Home Program
If you’ve thought about getting help for your marriage and you feel resistant to the idea of going for reasons like cost, feeling unsure about whether or not it is going to really help your situation, having to find a therapist that is the right fit for you and your spouse, and/or your spouse is […]
Why are we always fighting? We’re not married yet and already need marriage help.
Why are we always fighting? It’s hard when you’re not even married yet and you’re fighting. And it’s completely normal. We’re going to explain why you are triggering each other and how to move past that stage of relationship. More inspiration about staying calm despite your heated personalities: More than just a communication theory, Imago […]
How can I tell if my wife really wants a divorce or if it is holiday stress?
How can I tell if my wife really wants a divorce? Below is a question submitted by a genuinely confused husband who wants to enjoy all of the holiday season moments with his wife and children but his wife’s anxiety from all the to-do’s overwhelm her to the point that she threatens divorce. More inspiration […]
Should I get a divorce?
Should I get a divorce? “Why Should I Save My Marriage? My husband is boring and I’d rather just leave and be happy.- Bored wife” More inspiration about if you should get a divorce or learn how to save your marriage: When is divorce an option? Last ditch marriage counseling What’s the best way to […]
When is it time to give up on your marriage and file for divorce?
If your marriage is currently a miserable one, not giving you the basic things that you feel a marriage should be giving you, it’s perfectly normal that you would wonder things like- when to file for divorce? Or if you should get a divorce and just give up on marriage? We’d like to provide you […]
Should I get a divorce after the kids move out?
It’s common to wake up one day, especially after a big life change like empty nest syndrome, and wonder: “Do I still want to be with my spouse now that the kids are gone?” Without the busyness of parenting, many couples suddenly face relationship challenges they had been too distracted to notice before. Maybe you’re […]
Should I get a divorce or a temporary separation?
Wondering if you should get a divorce or separate temporarily? Every relationship endures hardship, but you should know the signs that a relationship isn’t working and what you can do to help your marriage recover after a crisis like cheating or addiction. Read the story from an anonymous client below. Does it sound familiar? If […]
Divorce Corp, A Hollywood Solution to Prevent and Stop Divorce
We recently came across a trailer for a new documentary called Divorce Corp. We don’t really know much about the people behind the documentary and when we recommend something, we usually carefully research who they are and what their approach is. That being said, it is a frightening portrayal of the family court system and […]
How to stop a divorce after filing papers.
How to stop a divorce after filing papers? Is it possible? Of course it is! It’s your marriage, and it’s not as complicated as it may seem. This post will include a little “legal-eze”, even though we practice marriage counseling not law, we want to provide you with some legal advice so that you can […]
We Use the Imago Dialogue in Our Marriage
When I work with couples, I help them tone down all of the stress and anxiety they may be experiencing and create an atmosphere of calm with an amazing tool called the Imago Dialogue. The Imago dialogue process is a communication tool that couples learn allows themselves to self-regulate, slow down, and feel safe enough […]
Pre Marriage Counseling
It can take newly-married couples a while to get used to living with a permanent roommate whom they love but didn’t realize was so different from them! If you are engaged or newly married, you may have been too starry-eyed at the beginning of your relationship to listen to any marriage advice, and we do […]
Marriage and Family Therapy vs. Individual Therapy: What’s Best for Healing Past Relationship Baggage?
When you carry emotional baggage from your past—childhood wounds, unresolved family conflict, or scars from prior relationships—it’s natural to wonder whether you should first see a therapist on your own before tackling marriage issues with your partner. Many people think, “If I work on myself individually, won’t I come back as a better spouse?” It’s […]
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How to deal with financial problems in marriage
Financial problems in marriage are very serious and are one of the top reasons that couples divorce. Money need not be a catalyst for divorce provided that you handle money problems in marriage well. We’ll guide you through how to do just that. More inspiration on improving any financial problems in marriage: Build your marriage […]
What to Do If Your Spouse Won’t Work on Your Marriage
One of the hardest questions I hear from readers is:“What do I do if my spouse doesn’t want to work on our marriage?” When the person you love most refuses counseling or even admits they’re unsure how they feel about you, it can leave you feeling hopeless, alone, and desperate for answers. But here’s the […]
Free Online Marriage Counseling on Household Management
When we were first married, we realized quickly that both of us had different ideas of what de-cluttering the house “should” look like. This free online marriage counseling on household management is a rudimentary step to make your marriage successful. More inspiration on household management as a couple: The 4 Clutter Personality Types Start with […]
Can books and Marriage Videos truly save your marriage?
We know that there are many people out there that are timid about going to marriage counseling. Perhaps they’re afraid of “dredging” up old baggage, or concerned that a marriage counselor will take “sides” with their spouse, or they think that the process of working on their relationship is going to take many, many counseling […]