Parenting on the Same Page: Why Being a Good Parent Isn’t Enough.
Is your parenting on the same page as your spouse’s parenting? You’re passionate about raising your children in the best possible way and parenting on the same page. You’ve attended parenting classes, read parenting tips, and have been conscientious about being a good mom or dad. There’s one key ingredient that you might have forgotten, […]
A Popular Blogger writes a review of our Marriage help program.
We wanted to share a review that a popular blogger wrote after reading and delving into our Total Marriage Transformation video course. If you’re not familiar with our program, it’s essentially a video guided marriage counseling at home program. We thank Heather, over at MommysFavoriteThings.com for writing her review!
My Wife Has BPD: What to Do If You Think Your Spouse Has a Personality Disorder
It’s frightening to wonder if something might be mentally or emotionally wrong with your spouse.Maybe you’ve described your partner’s behavior to others and someone said, “That sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).”You might feel both desperate for answers and hopeless about your future together. Before assuming the worst, let’s explore what you can do if […]
“How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage”- Has this happened to you?
“How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage” is the story of too many people’s experiences yet most people are unaware of how common it is. Have you ever wondered what prompts couples to give up on their marriage? While there are certain events that can push a marriage over the edge, many couples are successfully able […]
Marriage Counseling or Individual Counseling for an Unhappy Marriage?
When your marriage feels unhappy or uncertain, it’s natural to wonder what kind of help will actually make a difference. Many people ask: “Should I go to individual counseling to work on myself first—or should we start marriage counseling together?” This question matters. The kind of therapy you choose can determine whether your marriage heals […]
Is Name Calling Verbal Abuse? What is considered verbal abuse?
It’s a question many spouses ask when conflict in marriage escalates: “Is name-calling abuse, or just fighting?” The truth is, name-calling is a form of verbal abuse—and over time, it can erode trust, safety, and self-worth in a marriage. Verbal abuse often starts small: a sarcastic comment, a put-down, or an insult “said in anger.” […]
Is my wife cheating? I need marriage advice.
You’re wondering, “Is my wife cheating?” Our marriage advice to you is to share your feelings with her in a safe and connected way. We’ll give you more details on how to do just that. More marriage advice for you in this time of doubt: Communication or provocation? Make your communication problems disappear. How to […]
How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage Part II
How my Therapist Destroyed my Marriage Part 2 A previous article I wrote entitled, “How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage”– provoked a few strong responses from fellow mental health professionals. For those that think I am discouraging individual therapy, know this. I do not believe all individual therapy is harmful for a marriage. The problem […]
How to Enjoy Thanksgiving Dinner With Your Extended Family (Without Losing Your Sanity)
This article was written by Shlomo Slatkin, LCPC, a licensed clinical professional counselor and co-founder of The Marriage Restoration Project specializing in helping couples reduce conflict, rebuild emotional safety, and strengthen their connection through our highly structured 2-Day Marriage Intensives. The holidays are supposed to feel warm, meaningful, and joyful — but for many couples, […]
Love again- 3 ways to infuse love into your relationship
When you are going through a rough patch in your marriage, it’s hard to believe that you’ll ever love again. If you follow the following relationship advice, you will be well equipped to loving and healing together again. More inspiration on how to love again: 6 ways to stay in love forever and start getting […]
Online Marriage Course: The 5 Step Plan to a Happy Marriage
If you’re a DIY type of person—or you’re on a budget and can’t commit to in-person marriage counseling—an online marriage course might be the perfect solution. That’s exactly why we created The 5 Step Plan to a Happy Marriage: a self-paced course that teaches you the essential steps to repair your relationship and build lasting […]
What the Bible Says About Marriage—and How It Can Transform Your Relationship
If you hold traditional values and want marriage counseling that aligns with your faith, you may wonder: What does the Bible actually say about marriage—and how should that shape counseling? Though I am an Orthodox Rabbi, my therapy practice is non-denominational. Sometimes couples who are seeking Christian marriage counseling or Bible-based therapy ask me to share […]
Angry Spouse? What to do if you’re living with an angry wife or an angry husband.
By Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, LCPC — Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, Founder of The Marriage Restoration Project When You’re Living With Anger Every Day If you’ve been thinking “My wife is always mad at me” or “Why is my husband so angry lately?” — you’re not alone.Chronic anger is one of the most common yet destructive […]
How to respond when your spouse is angry: Mirroring
We recommend using parts of the Imago dialogue to learn how to respond calmly and with intent when your spouse is angry, specifically mirroring. Why? Because nothing is more diffusing to someone with anger issues than to be “mirrored back”. When you repeat back what your spouse is saying and validate his/her upset feelings, you […]
Transform Anger Issues in Marriage Into Compassion and Connection.
Turning Frustration Into Compassion in Your Marriage Last night, my toddler reminded me of something powerful about relationships. He’s teething again — waking up every night in pain. I’m exhausted, and it would be easy to lose patience. But instead, when I imagine his discomfort, my frustration melts into compassion. That small shift — from […]
Principles for a happy biblical marriage.
Many traditional families (not only those looking for christian marriage counseling!) want to follow the bible to enjoy a healthy, happy, biblical marriage.
A Biblical Marriage: What does the Bible Say About Marriage?
So many of you are looking for marriage counseling that is going to support your traditional marriage. You want to know how to best support a marriage that is biblical. We can help provide you with some resources that are sure to support your path towards a happy, biblical marriage.
Want to Learn How to Communicate Better With Your Spouse? Start With This One Simple Habit
If you’re wondering how to communicate better with your spouse, the good news is—it’s easier than you think.Improving communication in marriage isn’t about learning tricks, reading scripts, or using “tactics.” It starts with something much simpler and far more powerful: appreciation. The Foundation of Better Communication: Appreciation When couples first come to us, they often […]
My wife left. I want my wife back.
“I want my wife back!” If you’re a husband whose wife has “unilaterally” decided that she wants to divorce, and is unwilling to get marriage help from a professional or seek out marriage counseling, you’re going to have to learn ways on your own to stop divorce and win her back. Learn how we can […]
Choosing Between Online vs In-Person Marriage Counseling: What to Know First
Many couples wonder if online marriage counseling is legitimate and whether it can truly help their relationship. The answer is yes—if you find a trained, reputable counselor, online marriage counseling can be just as effective as in-person sessions¹. If you’re trying to decide between online vs in-person marriage counseling, it’s important to understand how they […]