What if my spouse won’t come to counseling? Whether it’s due to previous failed attempts or your partner is just not interested in working on things in counseling, it’s a challenge to work on a relationship with a partner that is not interested.
Try these 4 ways to get your spouse on board with you to get some professional marriage help.
The four steps include:
- Not making ultimatums – no begging, threatening, etc
- Trying the route of Co-parenting, closure, and possibly conscious uncoupling
- Working on your own stuff
- Trying the 180
All of which we’ve seen work at various stages with different couples. Definitely worth trying!
Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin is an Imago relationship therapist and certified (master level) Imago workshop presenter with over 20 years of experience hosting couples therapy retreats in-person and online. Contact info@themarriagerestorationproject.com or
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