Are siblings meddling in your marriage? Do you dislike your brother or sister in law? Find out what to do about these common family issues plaguing too many marriages!
Is your sister or your spouse’s sister trying to break up your relationship? What to do when your siblings don’t like your spouse? If someone in your family is trying to break up your marriage, don’t let them. They need to listen to this podcast episode just as much as you need to 🙂
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Rabbi Shlomo and Rivka talk a lot in this episode about why couples choose their partner and how even if your sibling has chosen someone that you dislike, there is a scientific reason they chose him/her.
Your brother or sister NEEDS that person to help bring back the pieces of themselves that are not currently being fully expressed. We all do this to protect ourselves in our childhood. If you received messages such as, “Don’t move your body that way!” “Don’t touch that!” “You’re being too sensitive!”, then likely, to protect yourself, you naturally “removed” parts of yourself in order to feel safe.
And the same goes for your sibling. The fact that your brother or sister was attracted to his/her mate and chose him/her out of all of the other people that they dated says a lot and is something that should not be tampered with.
What you will learn is going to challenge you to hold back from speaking your mind especially if you are encouraging separation.
It will also challenge you to keep the energy in your own relationship instead of putting your energy into other relationships.
We talk also about how someone living in a miserable marriage can change their relationship dynamic, marriage is not and should never be a “death” sentence.