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Imago Relationship Therapy Transformed Our Marriage

If you’ve never experienced Imago Relationship Therapy, and you’re searching for marriage counseling that actually works, here’s why I strongly suggest you try it — and why it changed my life personally.

But a word of advice: make sure you seek out a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. Training and experience matter when you’re entrusting someone with your relationship.

If you’re looking for marriage counseling that creates lasting change, Imago Relationship Therapy might be exactly what you need. It worked for us — and it can work for you too.

What Is Imago Therapy?

Imago Therapy is a form of couples counseling developed by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt. Unlike traditional therapy, which can get stuck in blame and defensiveness, Imago teaches couples a structured dialogue that helps both partners feel:

  • Safe

  • Heard

  • Understood

Instead of “Who’s right and who’s wrong?”, the focus becomes: “How can we heal together?”

That’s why Imago is often described as more than just a communication technique — it’s a deeply healing process that transforms conflict into connection.

How Effective Is Imago Therapy?

Skeptics often ask: Does Imago Therapy really work?

Research shows that couples who practice Imago Dialogue experience:

  • Higher relationship satisfaction

  • More emotional safety

  • Reduced conflict intensity

In fact, one study found that couples using Imago tools reported significant improvements in empathy, intimacy, and communication compared to control groups .

From my own practice, I’ve seen couples on the brink of divorce rediscover hope and rebuild trust in just a few sessions.

Why Imago Works When Other Counseling Fails

Many couples try traditional therapy but feel stuck. Here’s why Imago stands out:

  • No blame, shame, or criticism — sessions are structured to prevent attacks.

  • Conflict reframed as opportunity — struggles are not signs of failure, but invitations to heal.

  • Both partners feel safe — the dialogue gives equal voice, even to the quieter spouse.

  • Fast results — couples often report feeling more connected after just one session.

This isn’t theory. It’s what I experienced myself.

Our Story With Imago Therapy

Shortly after the birth of our first child, my wife and I hit a wall. Parenthood brought both blessings and intense stress, and our relationship began to fray.

We realized that while we had been “madly in love” at the start, we were never fully prepared for the challenges of marriage. We didn’t have the tools to handle conflict in healthy ways.

A friend recommended Imago Therapy. Honestly, I was skeptical — but in just one 90-minute session, we began to fall back in love again.

  • We revisited why we had chosen each other in the first place.

  • We saw our conflicts in a new light — not as dead ends, but as openings for growth.

  • Through the Imago Dialogue, we learned practical, structured skills that brought safety and compassion back into our conversations.

That single session changed everything.

Why I Became a Certified Imago Therapist

At the time, I was studying for a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. After experiencing firsthand the power of Imago, my therapist encouraged me to pursue certification myself.

It was a relief to finally encounter a model of marriage counseling that:

  • Allowed both partners to feel safe

  • Created space for healing beneath conflict

  • Helped couples not just “cope” but actually fall back in love

Today, I use Imago every day with couples in crisis — because I know it works.

Key Takeaways About Imago Relationship Therapy

  • Imago Therapy reframes conflict as a chance to heal unfinished childhood wounds.

  • Safety is central — no shaming, blaming, or criticizing.

  • Results can be fast — many couples reconnect after just one session.

  • Certified training matters — always look for a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist.

  • We’re proof it works — Imago transformed our own marriage and continues to transform the lives of couples we work with.

FAQs About Imago Relationship Therapy

How does Imago differ from regular marriage counseling?
Traditional therapy often focuses on fixing problems or analyzing blame. Imago Therapy uses a structured dialogue that helps both partners feel safe, heard, and understood .

Does Imago Therapy really work?
Yes. Studies confirm that couples using Imago tools report improved empathy, intimacy, and communication. Many couples — including us — experienced breakthroughs in just one session .

Can Imago Therapy save a marriage on the brink of divorce?
While no approach guarantees success, Imago has helped countless couples in crisis rebuild trust and avoid divorce by creating emotional safety and reconnecting partners .

Sources

  1. Anderson, S. R., et al. (2011). A review of the research on Imago Relationship Therapy. Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy, 10(4).

  2. Hendrix, H., & Hunt, H. L. (2005). Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. Henry Holt.

  3. Luquet, W. (1996). Short-Term Couples Therapy: The Imago Model in Action. Routledge.

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Shlomo & Rivka Slatkin

Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin is an Imago relationship therapist and certified (master level) Imago workshop presenter with over 20 years of experience hosting couples therapy retreats in-person and online.

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Shlomo & Rivka Slatkin

Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin is an Imago relationship therapist and certified (master level) Imago workshop presenter with over 20 years of experience hosting couples therapy retreats in-person and online.

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