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The Getting the Love you Want Marriage Retreat is “Magical”

Why a Marriage Retreat Can Feel Like a Reset Button

Just as we all need a much-deserved vacation—a time to get away from our surroundings and rejuvenate—our marriages also need time to recharge and reset. While a simple getaway with your spouse may do the trick, sometimes you need something more.

If your relationship has not been nurtured, or feels stuck in a negative space, the Getting the Love You Want Imago Marriage Retreat can feel almost magical.

 

What Makes the “Getting the Love You Want” Retreat Powerful

What makes this retreat so impactful, beyond simply getting away for two days, is the way it helps couples remember why they fell in love—and offers a reality check for the state of their relationship.

When we organized the November retreat for fourteen couples, we were amazed at the transformations before our eyes. Couples who were heading for divorce or locked in endless power struggles walked away holding hands, full of hope for a new reality. It was like a wake-up call.

The beauty of the group Imago marriage retreat is that it lifts couples above the daily grievances that have been weighing them down. It helps them see the bigger picture: why they fell in love, why they drifted apart, and how conflict itself holds the opportunity for growth and healing. Many couples leave with more compassion and understanding for each other, as well as some of the best tools available for strengthening their marriage.

It’s not really “magic.” It’s work. But it feels magical when, after two days of putting in effort, couples rediscover how to maintain a vibrant, connected relationship.

 

Why Imago Therapy Works in a Retreat Setting

The Imago approach offers a profound way of reframing conflict. Instead of seeing it as proof you’re incompatible, Imago shows that the very issues you struggle with are tied to the reasons you chose each other in the first place.

Through structured exercises, you’ll learn how to:

  • Understand the unconscious reasons behind your attraction and struggles

  • See how conflict is a chance for healing old wounds

  • Practice the Imago Dialogue—a step-by-step communication tool for connection

  • Rebuild compassion, empathy, and shared vision for the future

 

Group vs. Private Marriage Retreats: Which Is Right for You?

One common question couples ask is whether they should attend a group retreat or invest in a private 2-day intensive.

Retreat Type Best For What to Expect
Group Imago Retreat (GTLYW) Couples who feel supported knowing others face similar struggles Two days of structured dialogue, guided exercises, and community encouragement
Private Marriage Retreat Couples who prefer privacy and personalized attention Two full days focused entirely on your unique history, challenges, and goals with Rabbi Shlomo

Both options are powerful. A group retreat provides the reassurance of shared experience, while a private retreat allows you to go even deeper with undivided attention.

 

If you’re thinking you need a private marriage retreat instead, visit this page for more info. It’s just as powerful, if not more so, than the group retreat as we get to spend 2 days together delving into your own personal relationship history, present situation, and future relationship goals. Prefer an immersive couples retreat with just your spouse and Rabbi Shlomo? We look forward to talking with you about how our private 2 Day Marriage Restoration Retreat could benefit your unique situation.

 

What Past Couples Have Experienced

Over and over, we hear stories of transformation:

  • Couples on the brink of divorce discovering hope again

  • Partners once locked in power struggles leaving hand-in-hand

  • A sense of renewal—like pushing the “reset” button on their relationship

The Getting the Love You Want workshop is a big “aha” moment for most couples. It’s a breath of fresh air, a reminder of why you chose each other, and a set of tools you’ll continue to use long after the retreat ends.

 

Key Takeaways

  • A marriage retreat is not magic—but it feels magical because of the breakthroughs couples create in just two days.

  • Imago reframes conflict as an opportunity for healing, not a sign of failure.

  • The retreat lifts couples above daily grievances and helps them see the bigger picture of their love story.

  • Both group and private retreats are life-changing—choosing depends on whether you prefer community support or personalized focus.

Sources

  • Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, Harper Perennial, 2019.

  • American Psychological Association (APA), “Evidence-Based Couple and Family Therapy: A Critical Review,” Family Process, 2016.

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Shlomo & Rivka Slatkin

Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin is an Imago relationship therapist and certified (master level) Imago workshop presenter with over 20 years of experience hosting couples therapy retreats in-person and online.

Picture of Shlomo & Rivka Slatkin

Shlomo & Rivka Slatkin

Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin is an Imago relationship therapist and certified (master level) Imago workshop presenter with over 20 years of experience hosting couples therapy retreats in-person and online.

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