Should You Stay or Should You Go? Finding Closure and Clarity in Relationships
Every relationship, no matter how healthy, faces crossroads at some point – moments where you wonder if you are truly meant to continue the journey together or if it’s time to part ways. This is a deeply emotional, often confusing, place to be. On one hand, you may still care for your partner and feel […]
Premarital Counseling: Building a Strong Foundation for a Lifetime Together
Falling in love is easy, but staying in love takes work. At the beginning of a relationship, it’s easy to feel like nothing can ever come between the two of you. But as couples transition from dating to engagement and begin planning their lives together, it’s important to take a step back and consider what […]
Social Media and Marriage: Navigating the Challenges of a Connected World
In today’s day and age, it’s easy to feel super connected to the world around you thanks to the influence of social media. However, it’s just as simple to feel like it’s nearly impossible to escape, thanks to platforms like Instagram, Facebook and TikTok, among so many others. Whether we like to admit it or […]
Separated But Not Done: Your Guide to Marriage Restoration After Separation
If you’re reading this, chances are you and your spouse are separated—and you’re wondering if marriage restoration after separation is possible First of all, let me say this: the fact that you’re here, even reading these words, means something powerful. It means there’s still a spark of hope. And that’s enough to begin. I’ve worked […]
🛠️ How to Repair After Conflict So You Can Sleep, Focus, and Lead Better
By Rabbi Shlomo | The Marriage Restoration Project Conflict at home is inevitable. But when that conflict stays unrepaired, it lingers—in your mind, in your body, and in your leadership. Learning to actually repair after conflict is a CEO superpower. You’ll want to use it at home, at work, with clients, and colleagues. If you’re […]
Grey Divorce Prevention: How to Keep Love Alive Through the Years
As couples take the next step in their lives into the ‘later stages,’ such as retirement or becoming empty nesters, there’s no doubt their typical day-to-day is going to shift significantly. And while this time can be exciting for couples, it can inevitably cause shifts in relationship dynamics as children leave the home and careers […]
Helping Children Through Divorce: Why Your Marriage Deserves One Last Try
Helping Children Through Parental Separation: Support Their Emotional Well-Being Parental separation can shake the foundation of a child’s world. If you’re navigating divorce or relationship transitions, helping children through parental separation must be a top priority. As a marriage therapist and father, I’ve seen firsthand how intentional parenting can make all the difference during this […]
Effective Communication During Relationship Crisis: A 5-Step Framework to Reconnect When It Matters Most
By Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, LCPC, Founder of The Marriage Restoration Project When couples contact me in a state of crisis, they often say something like, “We can’t talk without arguing,”“We’re walking on eggshells,” or“Everything turns into a fight.” They’re not alone. In moments of relational breakdown, communication becomes one of the first casualties—and yet it’s […]
How Couples Emotionally Process Divorce
Stages of Relationship Dissolution: Understanding the Emotional Journey of Divorce Consideration By Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, Founder of The Marriage Restoration Project When couples reach out to us at The Marriage Restoration Project, they are often in pain—overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, and unsure of what to do next. What they’re experiencing is more than just conflict—it’s often […]
When Love Changes: Exploring “Sleeping Separately” in Marriage
In any relationship, what’s deemed ‘normal’ can vary from couple to couple. Whether you and your spouse have silly date night practices, have a unique cooking routine, or manage childcare in an unexpected manner, what is normal for you may seem a bit odd to someone outside of your relationship. One such area of difference […]
My husband is passive aggressive
“My husband is passive aggressive and I can’t stand it anymore! It’s so negative!” “My husband is passive aggressive and I can’t stand it anymore! It’s so negative!” Dealing with a passive aggressive person can be extremely angering and confusing. However, the way you respond to the passive aggressive behavior will influence whether or not […]
Raising Kids Together: Managing Different Parenting Styles in Marriage
While we may hate to admit it, no relationship is completely stress- and conflict-free. Each couple faces unique disagreements and stress points in their relationship, whether it’s due to money issues or arguments about how to best raise the kids. For the latter, these conflicts can often arise due to different parenting styles, with one […]
Dealing with an Insecure Husband: How to Reassure Without Losing Yourself
In any relationship or marriage, no matter how strong or how long you’ve been together, there are bumps in the road that can arise. This can especially be the case for couples in which one spouse suffers from anxiety or insecurity about themselves or the relationship. Some insecurities may be founded in reality, such as […]
Should You Check Your Husband’s Internet History? Navigating Digital Trust in Marriage
In this modern age of technology, it seems like we’re all attached to our devices, whether for work or for entertainment purposes. From spending time on social media on our phones to browsing endless shopping channels on our laptops to playing online games with friends on our favorite gaming systems, there are so many ways […]
My Wife Hates My Family—What Should I Do?
In any loving relationship, conflict can arise from the least expected of places, including your family. A favorite trope of sitcoms and dramas alike, disdain and disagreement between the ‘meddling in-laws’ and your partner can cause plenty of strife and challenges in even the healthiest of marriages. Whether it’s outright arguments at family events, actively […]
My Partner Is Not Affectionate or Romantic? How to Rekindle the Spark
In any long-term relationship, there are times when partners can become complacent and romance can seem to fade away or disappear entirely. This can be attributed to a wide variety of reasons, from the challenges of daily responsibilities getting in the way of spending time together to lack of communication. While it is no one […]
Why Do I Feel Like My Husband Is Hiding Something? Signs of Secrecy & How to Talk About It
With any relationship, open communication and trust are key to success. When one partner is being secretive or hiding things from the other, this can effectively close communication and damage the trust that has been so carefully built from the start. Oftentimes, the partner that feels the other is hiding something feels distrustful and often […]
My Husband Criticizes Me: How to Handle Constant Criticism in Marriage
No relationship is perfect, and neither is your spouse, no matter how much you love them and trust them. There are times that your partner can be challenging or disruptive, which can inevitably lead to you feeling frustrated and overwhelmed, resulting in your criticizing their behavior or actions. And while some criticism can be helpful, […]
Breaking the Cycle of Resentment: How to Let Go and Move Forward
No matter how long you’ve been together, every relationship can have highs and lows. From the excitement of first getting married to the challenges of everyday commitments and responsibilities that come soon after, there are countless hurdles that couples must work together to overcome each and every single day in their relationship. This process involves […]
The True Price of Divorce: Understanding the Financial and Emotional Costs of Divorce
When any couple reaches a breaking point in their marriage and the dreaded word, ‘divorce,’ starts to rear its ugly head, they may already feel like their relationship is on a path towards failure. Whether it’s due to infidelity, lack of communication or an outright betrayal, this is a dangerous path for any married couple […]