Marriage Mistakes Couples Make (not just communication problems) & How to Fix Them
We often get asked: “What are the marriage mistakes that couples make most often in their relationships?” While communication problems in marriage are the obvious culprit, there are a few deeper mistakes that can quietly damage trust and connection. The good news? They’re fixable once you become conscious of them. Here are two common marriage […]
When your wife won’t talk. What to do if she’s giving you the silent treatment.
When your wife won’t talk and you’re met with silence, it can feel isolating, frustrating, and even frightening. The silent treatment is one of the most common (and most painful) dynamics couples face. The good news? With the right understanding and tools, you can break the cycle and restore connection. There are things your wife […]
5 Marriage Communication Problems & How to Fix Them
Key Takeaways Most communication problems in marriage boil down to threat/defense cycles; lowering threat (tone, timing, clarity) unlocks progress. Use a soft start-up (I-statement + one fact + one feeling + one specific request) to reduce defensiveness and increase repair attempts. Replace mind reading and unsolicited advice with active listening and validation phrases so your […]
No Communication in Marriage? Learn Why. Maximizer vs Minimizer Styles
In a marriage, we need to make sure we communicate effectively. Our communication styles dictate for the most part how we react in certain situations, and the two most common communication styles are maximizers and minimizers. A maximizer is loud and boisterous, while the minimizer is reserved and avoids conflict. This dynamic can become very […]
How to Cope With the Silent Treatment in Marriage: Why It Happens & How to Stop the Cycle
Is your spouse giving you the silent treatment?Does conflict end with days of shutting down instead of resolution?Are you tired of always being the one to apologize just to get the conversation going again? You’re not alone. “Silent treatment in marriage” is one of the most searched relationship questions—and one of the most painful patterns […]