Before You Say “I Want a Divorce” — A Guide for Thoughtful Couples Seeking Clarity and Peace
By Jennifer Hargrave, Divorce Attorney and Advocate for Peaceful Resolution When a marriage is in crisis, the emotional weight can feel unbearable. You may be overwhelmed, stuck in painful patterns, and wondering if divorce is the only option left. As a family law attorney who has walked alongside many individuals through some of their most […]
How to Choose the Right Marriage Counseling Retreat Therapist
Choosing the right therapist for your marriage counseling retreat is a big decision—and let’s be honest, it can feel a bit overwhelming. You’re about to dive into an immersive experience designed to transform your relationship, so you want to make sure the therapist you’re working with is not just qualified but someone you truly click […]
Therapy Methods in Marriage Retreats: What Really Works?
When your marriage is on the line, choosing the right retreat — and the right therapeutic method — can mean the difference between breakthrough and burnout. Yet most couples don’t actually know what kind of therapy happens at a retreat. In this post, we’ll break down the most common therapy methods used in marriage retreats, […]
Red Flags to Watch for When Booking a Marriage Retreat
When your relationship feels like it’s hanging by a thread, the idea of escaping for an intensive marriage retreat can be incredibly appealing. A weekend away, dedicated time with a professional, no kids, no distractions — it sounds like the perfect reset. But not all marriage retreats are created equal. In fact, some can do […]
How Much Does a Marriage Counseling Retreat Cost?
(And Why the Cost of Not Going Could Be So Much Higher) If you’re exploring the idea of a marriage counseling retreat, you’re probably wondering, “How much is this going to cost us?” It’s a fair question. A retreat is an investment of time, energy, and yes—money. But before we talk numbers, let’s zoom out […]
What Is an Intensive Marriage Retreat and Is It Right for You?
When a marriage faces challenges, couples often turn to traditional therapy, but sometimes, weekly sessions don’t seem to bring the breakthrough they need. Enter the intensive marriage retreat — a transformative experience designed to provide rapid progress in repairing and strengthening your relationship. If you’ve been wondering, “What is a marriage intensive?” or “How does […]
Do Marriage Counseling Retreats Really Work? What the Research and Real Couples Say
Can a Marriage Retreat Really Save Your Relationship? If you’re considering a marriage counseling retreat, it’s probably because something in your relationship feels urgent- or even on the verge of breaking. Maybe traditional weekly therapy hasn’t worked, or you’re both too busy to commit to months of sessions. You’re not alone. As a licensed marriage […]
Last Chance Marriage Repair Retreat: Find Clarity with Discernment Counseling Before Making the Final Decision
I’ve worked with many couples who felt like they were at the edge of a cliff—emotionally exhausted, stuck in a cycle of uncertainty, not sure whether to stay or separate. The feeling of being lost in the middle of a relationship can be incredibly painful. If this sounds like where you are right now, I […]
Breaking the Cycle of Resentment: How to Let Go and Move Forward
In even the healthiest of relationships, resentment can quietly infiltrate, eroding trust and intimacy over time. Often stemming from unresolved conflicts, unmet needs, and perceived injustices, this resentment can create emotional distance between partners that can be truly damaging. Recognizing and addressing these feelings as soon as possible is crucial in maintaining the health and […]
How to Get Your Husband to Care About Saving the Marriage
How to Get Your Husband to Care About Saving the Marriage You’re trying to hold the marriage together, but your husband seems… indifferent.You bring up your concerns, and he shrugs. You suggest counseling, and he resists.It’s like you’re trying to save a sinking ship while he’s acting like everything is fine. If you’re asking yourself, […]
When Your Wife Says She’s Done: What to Do Next to Save Your Marriage
This post is designed to speak directly to the husband who’s just heard some version of “I’m done,” and is searching for answers, possibly in panic mode. It offers calm, practical next steps with a strong call to action for your marriage retreats. When Your Wife Says She’s Done: What Now? Hearing your wife say […]
Signs Your Marriage Is Worth Saving (Even When It Feels Hopeless)
When your marriage feels like it’s falling apart, it’s hard to know whether it’s worth saving. You may be overwhelmed by conflict, distance, or emotional pain—and yet, something in you still wonders: Is my marriage worth saving? The truth is, many couples have reached a point where the relationship feels hopeless, only to turn things […]
What to Do When You and Your Cofounder Aren’t Getting Along
Startup founders not getting along is one of the most common—and costly—reasons startups fail. Here’s how to spot the warning signs, fix the friction, and protect your business and your sanity. You’re Not Alone: Cofounder Conflict Is Common You’re building something incredible together. But lately, every meeting feels tense. Decisions take longer. Texts go unanswered. […]
When Jobs Come Between Us: Managing Career Stress in a Relationship
In today’s fast-paced world, our careers often demand significant time and energy, which can leave little time for personal relationships. When one or both partners are engaged in high-stress or demanding professions, the strain can seep into the marriage. This can lead to misunderstandings, emotional distance and conflicts, even in the healthiest relationships. Recognizing and […]
Why Startup Cofounders Should Consider “Couples Therapy”—And Even Put It in the Operating Agreement
Discover how couples therapy for startup cofounders can prevent founder fallout and protect your business. Learn why mandated therapy in the operating agreement might be your smartest move yet. Founders’ Fallout Is Real—And Preventable You’ve got product-market fit. You’ve raised capital. You’ve built a lean, fast-moving team. But behind closed doors, tension between you and […]
How to Suggest a Couples Retreat to Your Spouse
If you’re feeling disconnected in your relationship, you may have considered attending a marriage retreat or intensive couples therapy but aren’t sure how to suggest a couples retreat to your spouse. But what if your partner isn’t on the same page yet? Bringing up the idea can feel intimidating—especially when emotions are running high. This […]
Marriage Counseling Alternatives: Try These First
If traditional weekly marriage counseling hasn’t helped you and your partner feel more connected, you’re not alone. Many couples hit a point where they need more focused, effective help—and fast. The good news is that there are powerful alternatives to marriage counseling that can create lasting change without the slow pace of weekly sessions. In […]
In a Marriage Crisis? Here’s What to Do Before Making Any Major Decisions
A marriage crisis can feel overwhelming, isolating, and urgent all at once. When emotions are high and the future feels uncertain, it’s easy to think the answer is to make a quick, decisive move—leave, separate, file for divorce, or issue ultimatums. But the truth is, most major decisions made in the heat of crisis are […]
Regret Filing for Divorce? Here’s What to Do If You’re Second-Guessing It
Filing for divorce is a life-altering decision—one that many people later question. If you regret filing for divorce, you’re not alone. This post is for you if you’ve made the move to end your marriage but now feel unsure or conflicted. Why You Might Regret Filing for Divorce You filed for divorce because something inside […]
Growing Together While Growing Apart: Handling Divergent Interests in Marriage
When a relationship first starts out, couples often find themselves completely immersed in mutual interests, shared hobbies and activities. But as time progresses, it’s natural for partners to develop individual hobbies, passions and personal goals. This evolution doesn’t necessarily signify a weakening bond between partners, but rather reflects personal growth and the truly dynamic nature […]