What Steps Can We Take Together to Save Our Marriage? A Practical and Heartfelt Guide
When a marriage feels strained, itโs easy to start wondering if itโs too late to turn things around. But if youโre asking, “what steps can we take together to save our marriage,” youโre already doing something crucialโyouโre approaching it as a team. Saving a marriage doesnโt happen by accident. It requires intention, effort, and a […]
Wondering “How to Motivate My Spouse to Work on Our Relationship With Me?”
How to Motivate My Spouse to Work on Our Relationship With Me When youโre longing to reconnect and rebuild your marriage, few things are more frustrating than feeling like youโre the only one trying. If youโve been asking, โHow can I motivate my spouse to work on our relationship with me?โโthe answer often isnโt in […]
How to Work on Solving Marriage Problems Together as a Team
Most couples aren’t working together as a joint effort. When marriage problems surface, it can feel like you’re on opposite sides of a never-ending argument. But what if the key to solving marriage problems wasnโt about choosing whoโs rightโbut about choosing to be on the same team? You’re in the right place if you want […]
Premarital Counseling: Building a Strong Foundation for a Lifetime Together
Falling in love is easy, but staying in love takes work. At the beginning of a relationship, itโs easy to feel like nothing can ever come between the two of you. But as couples transition from dating to engagement and begin planning their lives together, itโs important to take a step back and consider what […]
Social Media and Marriage: Navigating the Challenges of a Connected World
In todayโs day and age, itโs easy to feel super connected to the world around you thanks to the influence of social media. However, itโs just as simple to feel like itโs nearly impossible to escape, thanks to platforms like Instagram, Facebook and TikTok, among so many others. Whether we like to admit it or […]
Separated But Not Done: Your Guide to Marriage Restoration After Separation
If youโre reading this, chances are you and your spouse are separatedโand youโre wondering if marriage restoration after separation is possible First of all, let me say this: the fact that youโre here, even reading these words, means something powerful. It means thereโs still a spark of hope. And thatโs enough to begin. Iโve worked […]
How to Repair After Conflict So You Can Sleep, Focus, and Lead Better
Conflict at home is inevitable. But when that conflict stays unrepaired, it lingersโin your mind, in your body, and in your leadership. Learning to actually repair after conflict is a CEO superpower. You’ll want to use it at home, at work, with clients, and colleagues. If youโre a CEO, founder, or professional leader, youโve likely […]
Grey Divorce Prevention: How to Keep Love Alive Through the Years
As couples take the next step in their lives into the โlater stages,โ such as retirement or becoming empty nesters, thereโs no doubt their typical day-to-day is going to shift significantly. And while this time can be exciting for couples, it can inevitably cause shifts in relationship dynamics as children leave the home and careers […]
Helping Children Through Divorce: Why Your Marriage Deserves One Last Try
Helping Children Through Parental Separation: Support Their Emotional Well-Being Parental separation can shake the foundation of a childโs world. If youโre navigating divorce or relationship transitions, helping children through parental separation must be a top priority. As a marriage therapist and father, Iโve seen firsthand how intentional parenting can make all the difference during this […]
Effective Communication During Relationship Crisis: A 5-Step Framework to Reconnect When It Matters Most
When couples reach out to me in crisis, they often say things like: Theyโre not alone. When relationships start to break down, communication is often the first casualtyโand yet, itโs also the first pathway back to connection.1 Thatโs why learning to communicate effectively in crisis is at the heart of everything I teach. Itโs not […]
How Couples Emotionally Process Divorce
Stages of Relationship Dissolution: Understanding the Emotional Journey of Divorce Consideration By Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, Founder of The Marriage Restoration Project When couples reach out to us at The Marriage Restoration Project, they are often in painโoverwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, and unsure of what to do next. What theyโre experiencing is more than just conflictโitโs often […]
When Love Changes: Exploring โSleeping Separatelyโ in Marriage
In any relationship, whatโs deemed โnormalโ can vary from couple to couple. Whether you and your spouse have silly date night practices, have a unique cooking routine, or manage childcare in an unexpected manner, what is normal for you may seem a bit odd to someone outside of your relationship. One such area of difference […]
My husband is passive aggressive
โMy husband is passive aggressive and I canโt stand it anymore! Itโs so negative!โ โMy husband is passive aggressive and I canโt stand it anymore! Itโs so negative!โ Dealing with a passive aggressive person can be extremely angering and confusing. However, the way you respond to the passive aggressive behavior will influence whether or not […]
What to Do When You and Your Spouse Have Different Parenting Styles
While we may hate to admit it, no relationship is completely stress- and conflict-free. Each couple faces unique disagreements and stress points in their relationship, whether itโs due to money issues or arguments about how to best raise the kids. For many, conflict stems from different parenting stylesโwhen one spouse prefers one approach and the […]
Dealing with an Insecure Husband: How to Reassure Without Losing Yourself
In any relationship or marriage, no matter how strong or how long youโve been together, there are bumps in the road that can arise. This can especially be the case for couples in which one spouse suffers from anxiety or insecurity about themselves or the relationship. Some insecurities may be founded in reality, such as […]
Should You Check Your Husbandโs Browsing History?
In todayโs digital world, we are more connected than everโthrough phones, laptops, gaming systems, and social media platforms. While technology makes communication instant and convenient, it also brings unique challenges for relationships. One of the most common issues couples face today is digital mistrust. With so many opportunities for online connection, partners may begin to […]
My Wife Hates My FamilyโWhat Should I Do?
In any loving relationship, conflict can arise from unexpected placesโincluding your family. A common dilemma for husbands is this: โMy wife hates my family. What should I do?โ It can show up as: This puts you in an exhausting position: caught between loyalty to your family and loyalty to your spouse. Without a clear plan, […]
My Partner Is Not Affectionate or Romantic? How to Rekindle the Spark
In any long-term relationship, there are times when partners can become complacent and romance can seem to fade away or disappear entirely. This can be attributed to a wide variety of reasons, from the challenges of daily responsibilities getting in the way of spending time together to lack of communication. While it is no one […]
Why Do I Feel Like My Husband Is Hiding Something? Signs of Secrecy & How to Talk About It
Youโve noticed somethingโs off. Heโs more protective of his phone, avoiding eye contact, or suddenly spending more time away from home. Your gut says heโs hiding somethingโand it leaves you anxious, alone, and unsure of where to turn. If youโre here, itโs because you want answersโand hope. The good news is secrecy in marriage doesnโt […]
My Husband Criticizes Me: How to Handle Constant Criticism in Marriage
No relationship is perfect, and neither is your spouse, no matter how much you love them and trust them. There are times that your partner can be challenging or disruptive, which can inevitably lead to you feeling frustrated and overwhelmed, resulting in your criticizing their behavior or actions. And while some criticism can be helpful, […]