When you’re at (or near) a breaking point, even admitting “we need help” can feel huge. The good news: choosing the right container—often an intensive retreat—can compress months of progress into days and give you a clear plan forward.
Key Takeaways (read this first)
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Faster progress: Retreats bundle 6–8 hours/day of focused work so you reach root issues without “start/stop” fatigue.
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Private + structured: Even group formats keep your vulnerable work private with your partner; sharing is optional.
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Multiple formats: Weekend workshops, all-inclusive Costa Rica, and a Couples Cruise—pick the container that fits your season and energy.
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Realistic outcome: Expect calmer conversations, practical tools, and a roadmap home—not magic, but momentum.
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Aftercare matters: Each option includes take-home tools and follow-through so change sticks.
Chart: Comparing Upcoming Marriage Retreat Options
| Retreat/Event | Length | Setting | Format | Highlights | Best For |
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| Imago Weekend Marriage Workshop | 2 days (weekend) | Online or Local venue, group format | Group learning with private exercises | Condenses 6 months of therapy into 2 days; structured Imago Dialogue | Couples seeking affordable, intensive reboot in a short time frame |
| Costa Rica Imago Couples Therapy Retreat | 5 days | All-inclusive beachfront resort | Combination of group & private work | 3 days of intensive therapy + 1 rest/exploration day; stunning scenery | Couples needing a deeper reset in a luxury, restorative environment |
| Couples Cruise (to Bermuda) | 7 days (with 4 therapy days) | Cruise ship & Bermuda | Group retreat with daily sessions | Intensive Imago method workshops, relaxation in Bermuda, luxury amenities | Couples wanting extended work + a memorable travel experience |
The Imago Weekend Marriage Workshop (2 days)
Best for: Busy couples who want an affordable, high-impact reset—fast.
What it is: A two-day “Getting the Love You Want” workshop that many describe as “like 6 months of therapy in a weekend.” You’ll learn and practice the Imago Dialogue to reduce reactivity and actually hear each other again. Group learning; private exercises.
Mini Takeaways
- Learn a simple, repeatable dialogue that calms conflict
- Do the hard work privately (sharing is optional)
- Walk away with scripts, boundaries, and next steps
The Imago Couples Therapy Retreat in Costa Rica (5 days, all-inclusive)
Best for: Couples who need a deeper reset in a restorative, luxury setting.
What it is: Five days at a beachfront resort in Playa Hermosa. Three days of intensive therapy + one rest day to explore and reconnect + final integration day to solidify a home plan.
Mini Takeaways
- Intensive work + true downtime in nature (better nervous-system recovery)
- Clear plan for “what happens when we get home”
- Memorable shared experience that reframes the relationship story
The Getting the Love You Want Couples Cruise (7 days total; 4 therapy days)
Best for: Couples who want extended work plus a bucket-list experience.
What it is: Sail from New Jersey to Bermuda. Four days of daily Imago-based workshops led by seasoned presenters (David & Donna Bowman), then three days to relax and enjoy Bermuda.
Mini Takeaways
- Deeper repair work on board; practice tools on shore
- Luxury amenities reduce stress so learning sticks
- A weeklong container that blends growth and celebration
FAQ: Marriage Intensive Retreats & Getaways
How are retreats different from weekly counseling?
They condense months of therapy into consecutive, longer sessions for faster breakthroughs and less backsliding.
Do we have to share in front of others?
No. Demonstrations use volunteers; your core work is private.
Which retreat is right for us?
- Weekend: Short, affordable, high-impact.
- Costa Rica: Immersive, restorative setting + intensive work.
- Cruise: Extended time + luxury travel.
What if my spouse is hesitant?
Frame it as a structured, blame-free getaway focused on feeling heard and calmer, not “being fixed.”
How do we keep the momentum after?
Each retreat includes tools and follow-up options (coaching or virtual check-ins).
How to Book
- Weekend Workshop: Grab the next date →
- Costa Rica Retreat: Join the interest list / request pricing →
- Couples Cruise: Ask about sailing dates and cabins →
Pro tip: when you inquire, share 2–3 outcomes you want (e.g., “fewer blowups,” “trust repair steps,” “clear boundaries”). We’ll help match you to the best fit.
