When your spouse checks out of the relationship, it can be quite a scary feeling. They may even say, I love you but I’m not in love with you.” It’s quite easy to get caught up in the drama and the fear of losing the one you love, that you may wind up pushing them away even more by trying to win them back. Here’s one of the ways you can get your spouse back without even trying. (It’s one of the steps in our 10 Step Challenge to Win Your Spouse Back)
More resources for you on how to get your spouse back without even trying:
- I want my wife back.
- 4 Ways to Improve Your Marriage All By Yourself: When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested
- How can I fix my marriage by myself?
- Is your spouse unwilling to go to counseling with you?
Sometimes, the best remedy is to give them space to work their own issues out and patiently stand by waiting until they return instead of actively trying to win him or her back.
We’re not advising that you be OK with your spouse consulting with others who are advising him/her to separate or leave you, just that sometimes people go through a mid-life crisis and may want to put the blame on you, when it is really them who is having the issue.
If your spouse has left and you want to get them back on your own, take the 10 Steps to Win Your Spouse Back Challenge.
Must Read Article on How to win him/her back
This New York times article on getting a husband back is an oldie but goodie that shows how you can survive during this difficult time, and even get your spouse back without even trying too hard.
Let us do the work for you in getting your spouse back. Talk with us about our private 2 Day Marriage Restoration Retreat, we will give you the plan and hold your hand every step of the way to help you revitalize your relationship. All you have to do is show up.
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